I'm the type of person who won't ask for help when I really need it, and my fiance works full time…
I'm the type of person who won't ask for help when I really need it, and my fiance works full time and I'm a SAHM with a 5 month old , but I'm also 19 weeks pregnant.. these past few days have been HELL for me. :( I don't feel like I can do the things I use to. I'm extremely exhausted to the point where in my day my eyes close even when I'm trying to keep them open. my legs and my feet are swelling I'm getting awful pains :'( and I'm trying so hard to just keep it together because I don't want my fiance stressing :/ and taking on more than he needs to. every morning at 1am I get up and get his clothes ready for work well I accidentally went 2 sleep and didn't do it tonight :( I woke up in a panic rushing looking for his clothes and couldn't find the right pants he wanted and I could tell he was upset. I felt so bad :/ I feel hopeless I just can't tell him I'm feeling overwhelmed :(
Madison·
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I understand how much you want to help your fiance but really?? why can't he pick out his own clothes before he goes to bed?? why do you have to do everything on top of getting his stuff? I'm sure he works hard but you're way more tired than he will be. it won't kill him to do that. or even see that you're struggling and offer to help
Tricia·
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You need to let him know how tired you are. He can pick out from clothes for the entire week , this will lessen your load.
lupe·
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I agree with @lilbabyboy16 he has hands and is a grown man picking out his stuff is not the trickiest thing lol your his wife not his maid
Sariena·
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it's not that he's lazy or I'm his maid but my fiance works in hard labor and hes pretty exhausted when he comes home so I started doing this just to make his morning easier but its not like picking out his clothes is whats making me so exhausted its alot of things together and I just feel guilty complaining about them to him since he's working all the time and I'm not :/
Sariena·
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I mean he literally comes home from work sometimes and doesn't eat or anything just goes straight to sleep cause he's so tired and that makes me sad to see him that way I know he's working hard to get us set up before he leaves but its heart breaking :(