so my boyfriend's brother's ex girlfriend (a little confusing lol) is pregnant (they broke up before she even knew she was pregnant). They had a miscarriage a long time ago and were going to name their little girl (they got a blood test to find out gender) Marley Jo, because they wanted cousins to have the same middle name (my boyfriend has a son, Kyler Jo, from a previous relationship). Well she found out a few days ago that she's having a boy. I DO NOT like her, I didn't like her before her and my boyfriend's brother started dating. I have her and her psycho mother blocked on Facebook. I don't even know how they know I'm having a boy or that I'm even pregnant in the first place because her and my brother in law (that's what I call him) are not on talking terms and he has her blocked too. No one in my boyfriend's family likes her or her family and also has them blocked, my family doesn't know them and don't add random people on Facebook. Well my grandma tells me today that Brandon (my boyfriend's brother) told her that she plans on using the same middle name as what I plan on naming my son, so that the cousins can match. This annoys me to the point of being pissed off. We no longer associate with your family, you're not even sure yet that the baby is Brandon's but you're already planning on copying the middle name that I picked out for my son? That's just weird to me and it still irks me that you even found out about my pregnancy, the gender of my baby and what I plan on naming him. Like seriously?! if the baby is Brandon's I will treat him like family, but I WILL NOT pretend to be buddy buddy with her because she pushes out a boy that has his genes. I didn't like you before you started dating him, and I don't like you now. you're annoying and your family is fricken nuts! Sorry I had to rant because my boyfriend thinks it's weird but isn't mad or freaked out about it and no one else understands. I don't know, it just really bothers me.
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@xxsammi.love, yeah it sucks lol I found out when I was in highschool I couldn't figure out how my parents always knew everything I was doing when they were blocked😂😂 once I graduated they told me how they just had to search up my name and it showed them all my accounts like Twitter and Facebook and Instagram lol after that all my accounts went private.
You can do that?! why why why does the internet let you do those things?! I don't want her nutso family to see anything that has to do with my family or my sons! ughhh well I'll post a status saying that and see where it gets me, hopefully she takes the bait since she's probably stalking my Facebook. fricken weird ass people in this world, ugh @xxsammi.love
@emma.rose, just say you changed the middle name and then later on say you ended up liking the old one better, even though she is blocked she can google search your name and your Facebook will show up and you can see what they post without having to be on an account. I had a girl who slept with my bf once like years ago and when we started dating she tried starting problems in our relationship and we both blocked her then once I got pregnant I guess people told other people and she found out and was talking shit. I was so damn annoyed! She was a one night hook up and that was it she clearly couldn't get over that.
I was going to do that but I do know how word even got to her in the first place because I blocked her whole family on Facebook and if she's blocked she can't even see my stuff if someone else shares it. And none of my family or my boyfriend's family talks to hers so I don't get how she knows. @xxsammi.love I should just have my brother in law tell her, but I feel like because he's so wrapped up in the fact of having a baby that he'd be offended and it would cause a problem between us and my boyfriend doesn't think it's a big deal but I do. ugh I just don't know >.<
@emma.rose, I would honestly just have word get back to her that you "changed" the middle name that way she uses the one you make up that way she doesn't use the one you want.
All the names I picked out a long time ago were either overused or used by people I know personally or my boyfriend didn't like them lol so I had to rethink all my ideas :/
it does because she doesn't even know if the baby is his! And she's getting him all excited when all she's done is drag him down and make his life hell since they met and honestly even though he wants a baby, he doesn't realize she isn't the right girl to have a baby with! Ugh she irks me so bad, if the baby is his, they're just going to drag him through hell and high waters to even catch a glimpse of that baby because the family have tried to control him since they started dating each other and I feel so bad for him and he doesn't see it yet and when he does it's going to be too late @aneely13
It is weird, would make me uncomfortable and pissed.
@aneely13 no, she's using the middle name of me and my boyfriend's new baby. She had wanted to use Jo before she miscarried which would have been fine because it's a family name but she found out the middle name that we are giving our son and is using it so that the cousins have the same middle names. I just think it's weird
I wish but my brother in law is so excited to have a son so I'm just going to stand behind him and hope the baby is actually his @modelo_chula
If she's giving her child the middle name Jo like she wanted to when she miscarried then I don't think it's a big deal because she wanted it before but if it's not jo and then yea it's strange
Yeah I had names picked out way before my pregnancy and I had voiced my opinion on Facebook (stupid me, but I was excited to start trying for a rainbow baby, that I couldn't help it) and now so many girls who have had babies or are having babies have used those names or say they're going to so I made sure I told family only because no one in my family is having a baby except my sister and she's having a girl so I'm good lol I wish I hadn't of said anything on Facebook but I didn't think I'd have to worry about something like that :/ @theinkedbarbie
I probably would of killed her already I can't that's just dumb she has a wierd thing with sharing last names
My mom has literally been up my ass asking me the entire pregnancy & I've almost caved, but knew how much I'd regret it if I did. I have 18 days until my due date, they waited this long, they can wait 18 more days. 😂 @emma.rose My brothers whore ass girlfriend (she's literally trash, I just hate her as well) stole a name from me before she had my nephew, so I refused this time to tell anyone any names I liked.
I was going to keep his name a secret and I pretty much have on this app but when I posted my ultrasound picture for my FAMILY (not her crazy ass) they all wanted to know and I caved @theinkedbarbie now I wish I would have just said it was a surprise :/
@modelo_chula it's just weird and no one thinks "oh they're cousins, they should have the same middle name"
that's just plain stupid that you can do it @xxsammi.love