Not being on the birth certificate doesn't mean as much as people think.. He can still take you to court, get it proven that he's your baby's father and be on the BC.. Then you look bad. You don't have to tell him you're in labor if you don't want him there but definitely go after support. Your baby is entitled to that.

Not being on the birth certificate means nothing. You need to file for sole custody the right way, thru a court, and have things established legally.

My told my daughters biological father that she was being born he came to visit after she was born and he wouldn't even sign he papers or even do the dna test at the hospital (he thinks she isn't his when I know she is). I've tried multiple times with him and he finally walked out of her life October 12th all because his new girlfriend.

he can file to adjucate paternity and get his name on there

idk I mean I'm already dealing with one stupid baby daddy cause with my 2 yr old. I'm just not sure if I wanna go through that again. @emily18234

I know but my thing is if not on the birth certificate. He has no rights. It's not like he cares. He's to worried about partying.

go after him. hell find out eventually then you'll be kicking yourself because he files for custody and you never got a dime

even if you dont tell him he will find out eventually