Is it weird for me to get Ava a black queen t-shirt? She's had a lot of self esteem issues at just 5 years old, from asking me to paint her white, to asking me to straighten her hair so she could like everyone else. I don't know if it's politically correct to do, since even though I'm Spanish, I am her white mom.
Your daughter is gorgeous. She has model potential. Maybe you should look into some inexpensive modeling agencies just to boost her confidence. I think my mom did that for me when I was younger. It pretty much woked until my light skinned younger sister happened to be waiting around at the agency with my mom. They saw her and were more interested in her. Lol
That's true. Maybe get her one of the new ones. That favors her!😊 @ms.jones
Yeah but that's so new . My daughter still has skinny , long haired barbies. @godsjoi
Barbies have expanded! There's all kinds now! @ms.jones
Yes it is heartbreaking because she's beautiful!!!! But I know how you feel I have a 7 year old who thinks that your not pretty unless your fair skinned , long hair and skinny . Pretty much Barbie . And I'm trying to teach her self love and worth ! @ceeasquared
Go for it. It will show her that all colors are queens!
@quea, We live in a town where white people are the majority. Her best friend at school has straight blonde hair and is white
She's been seeing and learning that from somewhere. Probably TV or school. There's no reason that she should have self esteem issues at such a young age. Teach her that she is perfect the way she is, I would definitely get her the shirt and let her watch videos or what not of black women that give empowerment!
its perfect I think. teach her about both sides of her ethnicity. its so sad that she's only 5 and feels the need yo change herself. she's beaitiful
Oh I'm sorry . Then definitely!!! Go for it!!!! @ceeasquared
I think it may be a little weird if she's not black . However , you should definitely teach her to love herself and the skin she's in. It's so hard with our girls these days . The idea of what's cool , or pretty leans hard on them . @ceeasquared
I say go for it girl!! Kids are so mean these days and my nieces father is black but her mother is white and she is going through the same thing!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
@godsjoi, I definitely want to . As soon as I can find one I will .