Welp officially a single mother.. We both called it quits today. & she's arriving pretty soon .. Sigh that's just more stress added on 😔 I feel like I shouldn't tell BD when she's coming at all .. Or is that being selfish ?
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The birth of a child is a very personal experience. I would say that if him being there and being involved like holding your legs getting to hold her as soon as she is born cutting the cord n all that will make you feel some type of way don't invite him. Wait until your ready to be in his presence to tell him he can come visit. When your in labor your at a very vulnerable state and would only want those who support you and love you around.
Yeah && I know right ughh :( Buh thanks ladies @sktraum @mylittleprincess
its really sucky when men think they can come and go as its convient for them. you know what's best for you and your baby. no one else can tell you the "right" thing. try not to.make.too many rash decisions. let it sit on your heart for a bit. you'll know when the time comes. either way you get that beautiful baby, that's what really matters! ❤❤
Oh shit. That sucks. Men think they can just pop in and out of their kids like lives and it's not gunna affect the child. It's best he just " figures himself out" and put child support and keep on walkin.
&& ... Basically he told me to take care of the baby alone until he figures himself out .. Like really ? This whole time Ive been prego he wants to do it now :( @sktraum
Right , thank YOUU ,, && oh I'm so sorry that happend :/ @mylittleprincess
I broke up with my BD at 36 weeks. We agreed to stay friends and co parent.
if he wants to be there, and will be a good father, I don't think you should keep the baby from him. but no one knows the situation like you mama. sorry you're going through this. my babys father stepped out when the second red line popped up
If he is I will :/ there's no doubt about that. Buh he says he wants to be there . I'm just gonna wait til I'm ready then show him @sexxymama83