seriously need some advice. my newborn is 10days old and through out my pregnancy because its our first me and my…

Tou shouldnt be offered by it. Woman carrying the child doesnt necessary feel a need to have sex, which doesnt mean Man feel same say. Think this way what is better him watch porn and makes himself feel good Or him making you feel bad as he wants it and you dont. There is a reason why porn exists;)

I know it's difficult when you're hormonal and hurt but try not to let it bother you. The best way to approach it is lightheartedly. my husband says he enjoys watching porn but given the choice he would always pick me and actual sex. when my maternity leave started he joked that now he wouldn't be able to watch porn for a year coz I'm always going to be home. men like that it's secretive, it makes it more naughty.if you're mad and upset about it they will probably do it more. If you let them know that you're ok with it and actively encourage it...its not very exciting hahah reverse psychology 😉

I had a similar occasion the other day. Normally I don't really care. I think everyone masterbates at some point, so before pregnancy I wasn't bothered, although we had sex everyday then. Since becoming pregnant like you, we were scared to have sex, him more then me. But we have started to have it once or twice a week now I'm feeling less sickly and can be bothered. But after sex, a few hours later, during the night I woke up and found him on his phone, doing the deed! I honestly say and cried to myself because I just didn't feel good enough anymore. Felt absolutely awful. I spoke to him about it though and after thinking about it I know now I was just letting hormones get in the way, it still hurt though xx

Porn is a quick release Hun it doesn't even compare to what you have me and my husband haven't had sex since conception! And I'm now 2 days overdue he never ever has sex with me when I'm pregnant and then with the last one we went another 2 months after the birth so it was nearly a yet because I had stitches and we were both knackered...he watched porn and to be honest so did I we were open and would laugh about it ...id just be honest and say when your ready to try he's just fur filling an urge until you give him the green light..x

@tuftyturtle is absolutely right, try not to be offended by it. watching porn doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you, he's actually being quite respectful by the sound of it by not pressuring you into having sex. We'd probably be doing the same in his position poor man! :p you'll be back to normal soon

It's not because he doesn't fancy you, you just said yourself that you've had sex twice in the last 9 months. Nobody is expecting you to want to have sex 10 days after having a baby but men aren't feeling how we feel. they still feel normal. Both times after having my children I've given my husband oral sex until I've felt ready. but even if you don't want to do that it's perfectly fine. your partner still has sexual needs and porn doesn't mean that your man doesn't fancy you. twice in 9 months isn't a lot, he's just doing what horny people do. Once he's looked at it, he's not thinking about these women. men don't view porn the way women do. honestly. You're hormonal and emotional but try not to let it get to you. I would far rather my husband watched porn and satisfied himself than him going and getting it elsewhere.