seriously need some advice. my newborn is 10days old and through out my pregnancy because its our first me and my partner only slept together twice in the 9months (I just didn't wanna risk anything) but now I keep finding porn all over his phone constantly every day. I think this is so unfair because I can't have sex with him even if I wanted to I'm stitched up after the birth. I feel like since labour he doesn't even fancy me anymore :'(