So I bought my baby daddy a little gift.. A sweater.. Candy.. These cards he loves... Some earrings.. Lottery tickets and a card & he got me.. Nothing. Not even a card from the dollar store. Should I be mad?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
I don’t understand why my son got a p-ebt card we never had food stamps or anything like that so why would he get a card with his name on it mailed to me?
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
Sorry for this rant so early in the morning lol one thing i cant stand it when i tell my husband how much money he can take out of the account and he does but then will use the card to get gas because he think he is slick because its my car he is driving. He is the one that has been driving it around use your damn money!!! Rant over he will be getting an ear full and having to take me out to were i want this weekend even though it his turn to pick.
missing197user·
is he your boyfriend or just your baby's dad
Katie·
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@jessicahartze, we together & we live together 😒
Emily·
Мама подростков
not unless it was discussed that you'd be exchanging gifts
Brittani·
the days still young maybe he'll come up with something @katierouleau21
missing197user·
I mean I feel like maybe you could be a little frustrated. I've never discussed exchanging gifts. if I get something for him and he doesn't get anything for me. that's OK, I would rather give than receive, because the look on his face
Kelly·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
You know the person you are with can't expect to do more or give more than they usually do. If your mad it's because you did more and expected more it stinks but don't let a made up hallmark holiday ruin a relationship. Some guys just really aren't the gift giving think about that stuff kind of guys.
Katie·
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@jessicahartze, @kellynns true.. Maybe it's jus the hormones 😂😂 I'm jus sitting here like damn okay
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (33 нед.)
Um yeah you should be upset. I don't think it should even be discussed. Its valentines day. He could of got you SOMETHING. ANYTHING. I don't think its your hormones making you upset. He could of got a card or something.
Katie·
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@carlismommy12, that's what I was thinking.. A card? Like I've had this shit sitting in my car for a week.. I actually put thought into what he likes.. Yea it was cheap & im too pregnant too do anything sexy 😒 but at least I thought of him
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (33 нед.)
Hell he could of wrote you a letter, made you dinner, did anything romantic. The days not over yet. fingers crossed he does SOMETHING. Drop hints sometimes men are slow lol My feelings would be hurt too girl. don't be blaming the hormones. No shame in feeling the way you do!!
Charlene·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
I don't think it needs to be discussed. Even if you don't go all out usually he could at least put in some kind of effort like a card or something