my husband knows that when he goes out I expect him home by 3am otherwise I consider it staying out all night and I don't think that as a married man he needs to stay the night at a friends. anyways we are visiting one of his friends. since I was too tired last night I said he could go see him as long as he didn't stay long. he left at 11pm and it's now 5am. at this point I think we need to seperate