So I really want to get a fetal Doppler but everyone including my boyfriends mom makes it seem like I'm stupid for…

Do what you need to do to feel safe and worry free. If you're stressing, baby is stressing.

if it'll make.u feel better then do it. it's your choice your money. just do it!!!

Get it! Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your money or child. If it stops you from stressing and worrying so much then you should do it. Ive been looking at some too and I think it's pretty cool.

Thanks @lynnbinn11 @mommyinaugust @theshaws I'm just so tired of everyone looking at me like I'm stupid over things.

Thats the great thing about being mothers, we get to make the ultimate decisions. I just dont understand people sometimes, if its not for them and not their money then they shouldn't be concerned.

Exactly! They're opinion is irrelevant but it just hurts my feelings because my boyfriend goes and buys $50 worth of beer and no one bats an eye not even me but I was a $55 fetal Doppler and I'm crazy and don't need to waste the money...

@theshaws,

get one of the apps on ur phone

I've tried those and they don't seem to work. Do you know a good one that works??

@aj33,

no, was gonna look into it myself tho

I got my doppler on the wish app for only $37. Works great! I used mine daily when I first got it around 15 weeks. I don't use it nearly as much since I can feel him move so I know he is ok. But if you really one want, get one. I know mine made me feels loads better in between dr appointments.

I'm thinking of getting one no matter what people say. It's my baby and I want to know he's healthy. @jacesterlingsmommy

I got the same reaction. haven't bought one yet.

I absolutely LOVE mine. I got it when I was a little over 9 weeks!

Its not that expensive. I say the same thing when my husband says stuff. $50 on beer/week, $60 on video games etc...I didn't need a doppler because I have twins and go to get checked almost every week, but if it makes you feel better its not like a $300 thing. Plus no one needs to know you got it 😉

It's your money buy what you want

@tahtahme, exactly and my boyfriend just got his $48 beer and whiskey from his brother and it's got me so upset. I'm going to get the Doppler regardless because he doesn't need beer but I feel like I need that Doppler to make me feel better. Plus I love hearing his heart beat.

The doppler is more necessary than beer, and also when you get to the end you can just go ahead and resell it in a Facebook group or on craigslist and easily get at least half that money back. Can't say that about a whiskey bottle!

Exactly! @tahtahme

I've got one if you want it

Really? @pennerswifey

yeah I just don't know how I'll get it to you

I don't either if I had a way to get to greenbrier I'd come get it. @pennerswifey

we can figure it out

Maybe I could get my boyfriend to drive and we can meet up somewhere lol @pennerswifey