So, I had a pre-trial hearing today and my sons biological father got the judge to order me to discourage my son from calling my husband, his stepDAD daddy or Father. my son started calling him daddy on his own and it bothers me so much his biological dad doesn't do anything for him. my Husband has been more of a father to him this past year then his actual dad has the whole 2 years of my sons life. he's just mad because now he can't lie to people and claim to be a good Dad when he's not because now my son has an actual dad who takes care of him and Zayne prefers my husband over him. he's just being so petty and immature. why take that right away from my son to call my husband daddy. now I feel like that's only gonna make him feel more like 'the stepchild' and less like actual family and it's all his biological father's fault. He doesn't even want anything to do his son, its all his mom pushing for this. Sometimes I feel like its my fault my son has such a horrible, immature, incompetent biological father.
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thats doesnt sound right... i dont think a judge has the right to make that decision if i was you i would look into that... thats some sort of discrimination that is just wrong. what kind of judge does that... geez louis... @tiffany_hull. look into that dont let that dead beat guy get away with it.
@tiffany_hull, That sucks. Haha he could always call him "papa" people forget that one!
she said I had to listen to him that people lose custody of stuff like that and that if I don't it will just piss the judge off. @gingyrex
@tiffany_hull, what did your lawyer have to say? Because that REEEEALLY doesn't sound legal. :\
I agree I didn't think they could force my 2 year old not to call him daddy but the judge did. he told me "that child is not to call him Daddy do you understand?!" and I have a judge is pro father's rights all because of a personal experience when it should be what's best for the child not the father. He may have gotten his way with the daddy thing but Zayne will ALWAYS prefer Damian over Bradley (His bio dad) and there is nothing Bradley can do about it. He will never be even half the father my husband is. @gingyrex
We don't always choose who we develop feeling for. What matters is you found a real man to be a father for your child. As for the "order", that is bogus! They can order you to NOT coerce your child AGAINST their bio parent, but to try forcing your child to alienate his real family? Ridiculous! Stay strong mama.
Just found out that my baby daddy has another child I didnt know about.. 8 mos old.. with another woman.. so I have been lied to.. my son will be his 7th child.. and I am the 4th woman.. at this point.. SCREW HIM! I am so done with his lieing ass. I am not going to let my son and i be his secret.. and him just continue to breed.. NO! My boyfriend & I will raise my son! He will be his dad! & my son will be loved like he deserves to be loved! I am doing what is in my son's best interest!! I love m...
Is anyone else just a total daddys girl? Growing up i wouldnt let any of my boyfriend meet my dad but thays my dad, i will still will not let anyone talk about my dad, disrespect him in anyways, like i will go beyond,
how many of you use the term "My baby's dad" or "My baby daddy" and actually like it?
I feel so bad for my baby boy he did not want to go with his father tonight clung on to my mom and cried as soon as father picked him up and then his father did nothing to console him. He didn’t hug, kiss, pat nothing. No love what so ever ( like usual) I feel so guilty, like that breaks my heart my mom was crying when she told me cause she said it was awful and his father was so cold like he always is toward him and she felt so bad to send him off where he didn’t want to go 💔😥 but it’s like wha...
finally found him!
My husband hasn't seen or spoken to his father since he was a kid. About 12 years ago he walked out.
I have done a little research and everything I've read online says that the judge can say that I'm alienating my son from his biological father and change custody. @itz.meli