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This is a sensitive subject for me but I've been smoking medical marijuana for a while. I recently stopped because I…

This is a sensitive subject for me but I've been smoking medical marijuana for a while. I recently stopped because I don't want them to take my baby away. I use it for many reasons; to eat, to sleep, depression and anxiety. I was suicidal once I found out I was pregnant. Now I don't know what to do. I can barely eat and sleep. Any advice? I have 5 more weeks to go.

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gunlovinmommy

Jessica

I'd ask your ob if she's open to that and find out your state local and hospital laws on thc testing infants. they just need to make it legal already so we don't hafta keep choking down the pharma bs.

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twinmommy523

BriannaВ ожидании первенца

Your ob won't inform anyone, the hospital upon birth will if your baby test positive. I too suffer from depression and anxiety and a few other things however I quit smoking when I found out I was pregnant so I wouldn't have to deal with anyone coming to check in on my kids. I don't want to deal with social workers.

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pinks626

Esmeralda GonzalezМама дочки (10 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

☺😊 anytime

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dearmichelle

dearmichelleВ ожидании первенца

@pinks626, thanks Hun. I need it.

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pinks626

Esmeralda GonzalezМама дочки (10 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

I live in LA as well and my advice is just be honest with your OB. I was embarrassed to tell mine and they just test to make sure I stopped since I was smoking before I found out I was pregnant. in some hospitals they check the babies meconium and it can show traces of THC. best of luck 😊..

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mrsdiaz2014

LindsayМама сына (1 год)

right after birth the drug test you, and no they don't have to tell you its for the safety of the child. Even if they don't know or suspect you they drug test you. at least that how it is here

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tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

Well when they take your pee they aren't testing for drugs and they would tell you if they were. They take it to test for chlamydia or protein and things like that...

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dearmichelle

dearmichelleВ ожидании первенца

@mrsdiaz2014, thank you for telling me your side and I live in LA.

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mrsdiaz2014

LindsayМама сына (1 год)

I don't know how it is where you are at, I just know what my rights are here where I am and I know they're are tons of houses where they should be, instead in mine taking my son when I've done nothing wrong.

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dearmichelle

dearmichelleВ ожидании первенца

@nichole_lynn, my ogbyn doesn't know but if I gave them my urine sample every time I go in they would of said something right? @tahtahme no they didn't know I had a different Doctor when I applied for medical marijuana and it was before I got pregnant.

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mrsdiaz2014

LindsayМама сына (1 год)

i smoked my entire pregnancy, smoked mostly for morning sickness and insomnia.

I cut down the whole time and even after I had my son, but I still smoke and they never took my son. If it's legal where you are, the most they can do is not allow you to breast feed in the hospital, they do drug test you and your baby, for myself and my son he didn't have anything in his system but there was small traces in his umbilical cord. They have to tell Dhs according to child safety, and they will try to come to your house unannounced, I personally didn't answer my door because I didn't know anyone was coming and I was home alone with a newborn. Now they will call you, and tell you they want to see the baby and make their own judgement on you, which is never good when it comes to marijuana parents no matter how you lock things up. I didn't let them, my son is perfectly healthy and fine. He was that way before he was born and after he was born, still is and excelling at everything.

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tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

I used to smoke a ton, cut back to only smoking for morning sickness and sleep, then stopped at about 5 or 6 months... I haven't since then. But I really don't believe you will be clean in 5w, and is it even worth it to stop suddenly? idk...you could probably renew it. But do they even know you were doing this?

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missing330user

missing330userМама сына-младенца

if you're super worried than go ahead and renew it, If no id say don't worry about it! if they knew from the start than they'd test you. but if you said no, I don't think they will. @dearmichelle

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dearmichelle

dearmichelleВ ожидании первенца

@tahtahme, I dont even smoke a lot like I used to before I got pregnant. I smoke to eat and sleep. I live in LA and I heard little company of Mary doesn't test but im not sure.

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tahtahme

TahtahmeВ ожидании первенца

You don't have to tell anyone, and they probably wont test you. If you were earlier, I would say cut out slowly, but youre almost done, there's no way youre going to be clean in 5w as pregnant as you are...too much fat and water weight. Also in some counties, like mine, Santa Cruz, they really don't care.

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dearmichelle

dearmichelleВ ожидании первенца

@ftmommieoftwiinz, that's good to hear. I give urine samples every time I go in and they don't say anything. My baby has a strong heartbeat and my stomach is a good size. I'm worried to bring it up cause they ask me if I use drugs, drink or smoke and I said no. @nichole_lynn my rec expired September of last year but I still have the paperwork. Do you think I should renew it?

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missing330user

missing330userМама сына-младенца

if you have a card or something stating for you to be able to.smoke they shouldn't take it away and I don't think they test unless you have past drug use problems, I smoke now, I have really really bad anxiety. it helps me a lot.

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ftmommieoftwiinz

KaeВ ожидании первенца

my friend smoked all during her pregnancy with her son. Atleast 3xs a day..and it wasn't prescribed. She still has custody of her son. Talk to your doctor..eventually they will check your urine to make sure you don't have too much protein so they will know. Ask them if there are any other options since this is the only way you can eat or sleep. goodluck girlie!

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babywhale

MichelleВ ожидании первенца

Wish i knew.. But im not sure if they routinely drug test at delivery or not. 😕 id be scared to even "hypothetically" ask them for fear it might make them want to test u..

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aphrodite2014

DanielleМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

umm... I'm not sure about your state but if you where prescribed the MD by a physician it shouldn't be a problem.. here in texas MJ is the lease of the hospitals concerns, and if it was going to affect the baby it would have from the beginning. if it's not prescribed you could still test positive depending on how they test.y suggestion to you would be to see a psychiatrist if you aren't already also talk to your obgyn..

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nyckolle00

NicoleМама сына (1 год), беременна (15 нед.)

I'd talk to your doctor

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