Yesterday we found out that our baby had no heartbeat at 7 weeks and the doctors told me I'm going to MC. My hcg levels are 82,000 and I have to get them rechecked tomorrow. But I'm having a hard time believing that it's over. I feel depressed when I know I can't be because I have a 2 year old who needs me and can feel when I'm feeling down. I just don't know how to cope with this. I wish it was easier..
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Thank you all ladies. @xbbycolletto thank you, you made me feel so much better. Your words are inspiring. @momma_jessa2 at my 6 week ultrasound the baby had a faint heartbeat and then yesterday it didn't that's why they assume that. And yeah I know they are I couldn't believe it either.
But how so if your hcg level is high? I'm 6weeks and 4 days and my hcg level is 8000! Haven't heard my baby's heartbeat yet till my next appt.
I'm so sorry this is happening. and I know how it feels. Just... I don't have living kids. but I did lose 4 babies back to back and it isn't easy. but... you get the right to take each step day by day. and that grieving is okay to do. as well as having the support by your side helps a little even if it's asking can I get you something to eat or drink, or you stay in bed and I'll take care of the little one today. it's tough. but first way to start with coping is doing what you see best. if that's sleeping all day and letting emotions out then that's step one. you take it day by day. 💙
I'm thinking of you. you've joined an army of special mothers. I've always called the angel mommies. stronger than ever. if you ever need to vent about it. I'm all ears.
The same thing happened to me when son was two but I 10 weeks along. It is hard to understand why it happens it takes time to cope with a lost. It took almost a year to recover from lost. I just focused all my attention on the child that did have to try to take mind off of it. But I still think about every now and then.
I hope that's not the case I hope it could be that your baby is a late bloomer. Your hcg level is high as heck@kenziesmom
I'm sorry that your going through this 🙏 it happen to me too.things happen for a reason.I was also so depressed cus I had lost my angel
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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@kenziesmom, you're welcome. I didn't have support or any thoughts from people with my losses. so I've always always promised myself to be there for those who are going through it. I know how it feels to be the one to have a doctor say stuff to you and if just completely wreck you, ya know?