I feel so insecure...all my boyfriend do is talk to me about all the other females he sees and admires, who flirts with him, his exes, and who he is so in love with then when he looks at me all he call me is fatty or after I have the baby we gonna go to the gym together 😢😢😢
Wow! That's so disrespectful and purposely hurtful. You'd be well served to put him in his place and if he doesn't fix himself, walk away. Your baby should not see this sort of treatment.
I agree 100% with @torie_mspruitt plus I've been in the same position because I kept allowing the disrespect to happen.
Tell him how your feeling! If you havmt already and if you have then stop thinking about him and focus on yourself.. making you feel good about yourself by cleaning, organizing, walking outside, write grocery lists or lists of what you need and already have for the baby! Just find ways to make yourself happy! :) Thats always helps me!!
Girl you are better than that. my childs father and i are not together. hes admitted to sleeping with his other baby mama before i found out i was pregnant. i wont lie i keep him around for comfort but thats it. we dont live together were not in a relationship. im sure he sleeps with other people. hes called me fat before too. i let that go. its emotional at times. thats why he comes around every so often. if i can do it. so can you.
@nevaehmommi4816, walk a little farther, like away from his crap, permanently. He's failing to realize that he has a daughter now, and she'll pattern her choices after how she sees him. Little boy needs to grow up in a major way. Meanwhile YOU, you BEAUTIFUL lady, don't need that negativity either. You're not a fatty, you're not unattractive in the least, and you only deserve a man who treats you well. Don't accept his childish antics anymore.
u have no idea how much i can relate..... my first pregnancy was hell. i hope it turns out for the best girl....
@brenking, @jayemarie912 @mommabear3cubs @mommyrai @niki664 @tayek I try not to pay attention to it when he says it but it's starting to get to me cause he calls me fatty every chance he gets and laughs although I tell him it hurts my feelings and then tells me about other females and I'll just hang up the phone or walk away from him when he starts
Aww I'm sorry! That's a really mean to say to your girlfriend! Girl don't you listen. Your Beautiful and your baby is making you even more Beautiful! :) Big Hugs! I know that really hurts, especially when it comes from someone you love! Your not alone! If you want to talk I'm here! :) @nevaehmommi4816
@nevaehmommi4816, a man will only do what he is allowed to do. What is love beloved? Once you can answer that then you'll see what you should do. I will say this. ...men are simple. There is no complication in them. What they show us is truth it's whether we choose to accept that truth is our problem. Find peace and love will find you.
You can do so much better than that guy, mama. Besides, if any of those girls ever gave him a second glance (and they wouldn't likely), it'd just be to put him because he doesn't know a good thing when he has it.
@nevaehmommi4816, @jayemarie912 and @torie_mspruitt could not have said it any better. I hope you make the right choice for you and your baby