*Oh My!! I have another issue on top of and issue on top of that!! My s/o and I have a long rough history, its by gods…
*Oh My!! I have another issue on top of and issue on top of that!! My s/o and I have a long rough history, its by gods grace we're still even talking and expecting a baby. He recently just got out of jail for a dv "domestic violence" and the whole time he was locked up, he and his mom were planning against me, his mom calling cyfd on me, accusing me of being w/another man and our son on his way now wasn't his.. ect!! So, I acted out like any female would have and set my mind on saying fuck him I don't need him or his moms bullshit and raise our son sola. Well he gets out of jail an shows up to my apt at 7am so my mind changed after a few hours of attention. Last night I told my mother an sister he was going to be apart of the birth. Their reaction was: "DONT FUCKING TALK TO US, HAVE HIM HELP YOU NOW, LATERS!" might I add, they promised a babyshower, than cancelled last minute an instead said they'd help buy me things. Now its no help at all from them, my s/o is keep me a secret from his mom like he's 12 or something, an I'm a 27yr old mother of 3 an I'm like wtf!!!! UHF I cried myself to sleep after thinking of EVERYTHING and I figured my sister an mom are selfish bitches, an my s/o is a scared immature fucking kid!!!! So I'm going to cut them all off, not contact any of them an keep doing it how I know how too. ALONE
Meli·
im sure you will make the right choice sweetie. family is and forever be there in the other hand this childish guy had proven hes not that stable person your looking for or you need. he needs a lot od therapy and most important stop letting his mom take over his life. boytom point move on your sister and mom mean well for you and tbey have proven tbey care and love you. @mamacita.joyy.alba
Andrea·
yw.. sweety😉
missing325user·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I just texted her now! I can't be dumb to put that boy over my family when he wouldn't do it for me! your right! thank you @ilovemy4withtwins2016
Andrea·
Right..an sad to say it only gets worse when it comes to those type of people..just focused on self an baby don't cut your mother an sister off they love you an they won't to be there to support you an your baby your family got you & the baby's best interest I would stick with that..😊
missing325user·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
It almost feels that way! @ilovemy4withtwins2016
I've been dealing w/them for years!
Andrea·
your mother an sisters interest lies with in you they just don't won't to see you hurt trust me an I really don't blame them ...I delt with a man similar to you s/o an he's a dangerous man being manipulated by his devilish mother people like him an his mother will do anything to see you hurt if things don't go there way be very careful dealing with people like that they can make your life a living hell if you let them
missing325user·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
thank you! I know my family means well. I know they do, regardless of their feelings, why can't they just talk amongst themselves about how disappointed they are, instead they blow off everything now that I truly need them. that's what I don't get! and as far as the s/o goes! yes your right! he's never once had my back! never. still doesn't, obviously! so why am I mad at my family for their concerned feelings and not mad at his childish crap? I don't understand how I can allow him over them!
Meli·
your mom and sister are just worried about you im sure they said that out of anger. and in the other hand your s/o you definately dont need gim in your life sweetie if hes so immature and hidding like a baby from his mom totally not the business. you dont need that right now. Follow your hears and make decisions when you have a clear mind not out of emotions. you got this. i been through it and it sux but at the end you will be blessed with a amazing baby @mamacita.joyy.alba