*Oh My!! I have another issue on top of and issue on top of that!! My s/o and I have a long rough history, its by gods grace we're still even talking and expecting a baby. He recently just got out of jail for a dv "domestic violence" and the whole time he was locked up, he and his mom were planning against me, his mom calling cyfd on me, accusing me of being w/another man and our son on his way now wasn't his.. ect!! So, I acted out like any female would have and set my mind on saying fuck him I don't need him or his moms bullshit and raise our son sola. Well he gets out of jail an shows up to my apt at 7am so my mind changed after a few hours of attention. Last night I told my mother an sister he was going to be apart of the birth. Their reaction was: "DONT FUCKING TALK TO US, HAVE HIM HELP YOU NOW, LATERS!" might I add, they promised a babyshower, than cancelled last minute an instead said they'd help buy me things. Now its no help at all from them, my s/o is keep me a secret from his mom like he's 12 or something, an I'm a 27yr old mother of 3 an I'm like wtf!!!! UHF I cried myself to sleep after thinking of EVERYTHING and I figured my sister an mom are selfish bitches, an my s/o is a scared immature fucking kid!!!! So I'm going to cut them all off, not contact any of them an keep doing it how I know how too. ALONE
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I just texted her now! I can't be dumb to put that boy over my family when he wouldn't do it for me! your right! thank you @ilovemy4withtwins2016
Right..an sad to say it only gets worse when it comes to those type of people..just focused on self an baby don't cut your mother an sister off they love you an they won't to be there to support you an your baby your family got you & the baby's best interest I would stick with that..😊
It almost feels that way! @ilovemy4withtwins2016
I've been dealing w/them for years!
your mother an sisters interest lies with in you they just don't won't to see you hurt trust me an I really don't blame them ...I delt with a man similar to you s/o an he's a dangerous man being manipulated by his devilish mother people like him an his mother will do anything to see you hurt if things don't go there way be very careful dealing with people like that they can make your life a living hell if you let them
thank you! I know my family means well. I know they do, regardless of their feelings, why can't they just talk amongst themselves about how disappointed they are, instead they blow off everything now that I truly need them. that's what I don't get! and as far as the s/o goes! yes your right! he's never once had my back! never. still doesn't, obviously! so why am I mad at my family for their concerned feelings and not mad at his childish crap? I don't understand how I can allow him over them!
your mom and sister are just worried about you im sure they said that out of anger. and in the other hand your s/o you definately dont need gim in your life sweetie if hes so immature and hidding like a baby from his mom totally not the business. you dont need that right now. Follow your hears and make decisions when you have a clear mind not out of emotions. you got this. i been through it and it sux but at the end you will be blessed with a amazing baby @mamacita.joyy.alba
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
so my boyfriend and I live with his parents with out almost 2 week old son... his parents and his mom always want to hold him like all day everyday and get mad when I take him upstairs in our room... I'm not breast feeding... my question is with me not breastfeeding and his mom constantly holding him will he know I'm his mom? that's my biggest fear... my son not knowing who I am and thinking she's his mom.
Okay I need advice... NO JUDGMENT PLEASE..
I need daycare for my son.. it costs $150 a week.. In order to qualify for daycare assistance I need to comply with child support..
my baby daddy got out of jail today & I told him I'm going to have to go after him for CS & he threatened to expose my naked pics all over the place if I do.. awesome right?
instead he said that he will pay for his daycare... $600 a month... my son is his 6th child... and he is supposedly paying out of pocket for his other ...
Not having a mom right now really fucking sucks. My birth mom is a POS and I refuse to let her be a part of my life. And my step mom is in my life daily but she's such a bitch and favors her sons and their wives over me so she's basically dead to me too! So annoyed I could cry for days. Fucking hormones! 😢
im sure you will make the right choice sweetie. family is and forever be there in the other hand this childish guy had proven hes not that stable person your looking for or you need. he needs a lot od therapy and most important stop letting his mom take over his life. boytom point move on your sister and mom mean well for you and tbey have proven tbey care and love you. @mamacita.joyy.alba