I feel like I already know the answer to this, but I'm gonna go ahead & ask opinions anyway.

nah your not being a bitch..but how is her fiance not family if he will soon be your brother in law? how will you feel of when they get married and he chooses to not have you attend their wedding

Yes u kinda are at the end of the day if it was the other was around u would feel some type of way and not wanna go and I'm pretty sure that's how she feels

Because it has been done to me in the past, if I were invited & my boyfriend was not, I would not attend. He is part of me. My situation was a bit different than yours however. It's your wedding, so you call the shots. @brogansmommy

It's your wedding so you pick and choose who should be there. If you don't get along with him then I wouldn't invite him. Your sister may be mad you for awhile but she will get over it

it's your decision. not hers.

At the end of the day it's your decision. I do think your sister's feelings will be hurt & probably wont want to attend..

I dont think you're being a bitch at all9 its your wedding you invite who you want . If it makes you feel any better i dont get along with my brother in law or his wife and i invited them to an event and they ruined it . Have the people you want who support you and actually like you

boyfriend and girlfriend doesnt hold the same.. as husband and wife.. only certain people are able to being their SO if they arent married.. but all engaged ppl and married people got a plus one for mine. but its out of respect that you invite the spouse.

I wouldn't push my fiancé on her if she didn't like him. If she asked me not to bring him to her wedding because she didn't like him I would understand because I wouldn't want someone I don't like at my wedding. Hence, why I don't want him there. I wouldn't be petty & immature & not go because my significant other wasn't invited. Just because you are a couple doesn't mean you have to do EVERYTHING together.

husband and wife you become one.. if its a wedding and they onyx invited me and said my husband couldnt come.. i guess i wont be attending also.. but thats the type of relationship we have.. we're a team .. some things you do not need to be together all the time but.. toeach their own.. i invited someones wife who i do not care for out of respect thay your supposed to include the spouse

If I was having a bigger wedding then I probably wouldn't mind, but it's a super small ceremony & I don't want anyone there that isn't 100% supportive & doesn't like me.

we get that...but when your sister wedding comes up..what if she doesnt invite you, because her husband doesnt like you?

@brogansmommy if he doesnt like u.. he probably wont come.. but extend the invitation.. lol cant be petty .. im forced to invite ppl i cant relly stand that much..lol

If she decides not to invite me then that's her decision.

yes. you are being a bitch.. whether you like it or not hes going to be family... it's quite rude to tell her not to bring her other half just because you don't want him there... She probably won't come.. Sorry but if my brother didn't like my fiance and said hes not allowed at the wedding then I would give my brother a big FUCK YOU... because even though he's my best friend, my fiance is my everything. period.

Hmm. Then I guess I'll just be a bitch then. It's my day & I don't want him there.