I am so tired of people constantly coming to the house, I hardly got a second alone the whole time we were at the hospital. I'm home upstairs in my room been trying to get him good and asleep for awhile but literally as soon as I'm about to walk downstairs my sister shows up with her 3 kids and everyone is so fucking loud I can hear every little noise and so now as I've been starving for hours I can't even go downstairs in my own house. Then the baby will be awake soon and it'll take me another hour or so to get him situated and fed changed etc and pump. I'm about to lose it. Plus I've been trying to get ready for awhile now too for pictures and it's just not happening.
@babyjjsmommy, yes the first 3 months are tough especially because everyone wants to see the baby I didn't even want anybody holding him lol
I lost a lot of blood, they tried to keep me for a transfusion but I was border line so after awhile they let me go home with precautions. Plus I have 1st degree tearing and don't even know how many stitches bc I'm scared to look at that. ALL that with being a ftm and strictly breastfeeding has definitely taken its toll on my body. Wouldn't trade it for the world, but it'd just be nice to not be constantly surrounded. Especially by LOUD ass people lol. @momma1
Yeah I wish I could do that! Atleast my step mom goes back to work tomorrow and Only my grandma and uncle are coming over tomorrow (so far) I wish my little brother wasn't out of school either because then I'd have the house to myself for a little bit.
@babyjjsmommy, I'm sorry to hear that I didn't accept visits the first month at all I want up to it and there were people that understood
I was lucky no one came to my house!!! But seriously time limits. They need to understand that you have to get a schedule going. For your sake and the baby. And not to mention it is flu season