Sooooo my baby's father has denied her my entire pregnancy. Well he texts me this morning telling me that one of his friends is gonna be a dad too. So I went to his friend's profile on Facebook to see if there was anything on there and there was a status about it well my baby's dad had commented and said "we're gonna be dads together" and "me and Kahla are expecting a daughter she's due within the month". It made me happy but at the same time it's like why wait until now to start acting like a father?! He's not bought anything for her or even asked about her this entire time. If he's gonna talk the dad talk on Facebook he better be there when she's born. 😡
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maybe he was afraid and didn't wanna do it "alone" guys are weird, BUT since his friend is going to be a dad, he knows he won't lose a friend, and have someone to talk to about it. I hope for the best, good luck
@kbashoor11, just give him a shot I think it's worth it.
@stephnagy2, I think he went thru the "omg I'm having a kid, my life is over" phase and needed to get all of the immature stuff out of his system so he can be the father he needs to be when she's here. I mean he should know how it feels to grow up without a father because his dad was never there for him till he was 17.
my SO never denied this baby but there was a short month early on where he completely checked out (we broke up and didn't say a word to each other for a month) and one day out of the blue said sorry about everything and wanted to fix his mistakes, that hes been sorry for a while but didnt feel like he deserved me but wants be there for our son and I. sometimes it just takes something to click in their hearts and they grow up. so maybe that happened and he just doesn't know the way to go about making things better?/:
@sarahdrew, I agree with you as well! He's been pretty shitty towards me my entire pregnancy and always said she was someone else's but all along I've known she was his. But you're right I can do it by myself if he doesn't step up 😊 I just hope for her sake she can have daddy around because I was such a daddy's girl that's the only reason I want him around. I want her to have that bond that I did but if not then oh well she'll learn that he never wanted to be the dad she needed.
@stephnagy2, I would never deny him to come around and be the dad he needs to be for her and I agree that he finally realized what he was missing and what he has and was like oh maybe I should be there.
I agree with @emily18234 he didn't want to seem uncool for being a dad without his friends.... I hope your little girls sake he steps up, but if he doesn't don't get discouraged you have made it this far without him and you don't need someone in her life who will only be there when it's the cool thing to so.... you got this mama
I'm of course not saying the way he acted was right but sometimes it's takes the man to realize what he has and is missing to want to be there. If he wants to be there now and stay there and he will be a good dad I don't see why that shouldn't happen ya know? it's just sad that men can be immature.
hahaha he waited until it was "cool". what a stand up dad smh
My baby's father got me and another girl pregnant around the same time. His first son was born in December and he posts pictures and brags on Facebook, but says nothing about This one. It hurts my feelings that he won't even acknowledge Rylan..