there are certain things that agitate my soul being pregnant... ➡NUMBER ONE: my MIL... her in…
there are certain things that agitate my soul being pregnant... ➡NUMBER ONE: my MIL... her in general 😒 ➡NUMBER TWO: when my MIL refers to my child as, "MY baby" ... no, I do believe that I am the pregnant one going thru bullshit, so pipe down!!! ➡NUMBER THREE: when my MIL constantly touches my stomach KNOWING DAMN WELL she can't feel the baby, so stop touching me.. ➡NUMBER FOUR: when people say "omg you're prego!" Actually, no, I'm pregNANT.. I'm not speghetti sauce, thanks. those are just a few things. I am a megabitch and I sympathize for those around me. lmao
Gabby·
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Lol I hate the word prego. -_- or preggers... barf. My MIL is a bit of a pain too
Galen 🌻·
@gab044, she lives with us and sometimes it's like I cannot get away.. it takes everything in me not to curse her out on a daily basis. I love her, but with me being pregnant she's just my person to be annoyed by. everyone has that one person during the pregnancy.
Gabby·
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@babynumber1, yeah I bet that's tough I couldn't have her near me all the time I'd freak out!
Galen 🌻·
@gab044, yess.. we get into it everyday if not every other day. he and I live with his aunt and uncle we all rent a house together. she just moved in after she found out about the baby and GOOOOOSH.. ugh... we just need to get out before the baby comes because I already know if we are here when the baby comes it will be bad. she will be up our ass trying to do everything and bothering me the whole time I just won't be able to manage it.
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
this. all of this !!! this is my mother to a tee !
Galen 🌻·
@arijane316, lol my mother is amazing she doesn't ever bother me.. it's my mother in law!!! I am a very .. VERY mouthy person when people say something I don't like or have the slightest attitude. I think it has to do with me being bipolar, it sets me off in an instant. before my pregnancy I was on meds to regulate my bipolar and depression so I never had issues and I was such a peaceful person BUT I can't take those meds anymore so mouthy bitch is back. she says one thing and me and my little belly are flying down the steps balls a blazing with something to say! I hate it and I hate that it puts my boyfriend in the middle but I can't help it!
Amanda·
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PREACH! my MIL has done the same thing and more! I just stopped talking to her it was too stressful
Galen 🌻·
@armywife14, we are on limited conversation as it is. today went pretty well since I worked and didn't see her really. I do love her and I end up feeling bad but GOOD LORD sometimes I wish she would just hush herself ya know lol. I just get so defensive when she calls our baby her baby it makes me so mad.
Galen 🌻·
and it's usually silly stuff I get mad about but my hormones are raging right now lol
Amanda·
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@babynumber1, totally understand! there's other underlying reasons why we aren't as close as we were before but that's a whole other subject haha
Sydney·
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👐👐 same thing here! I don't get along with my mil or grandma in law I guess you could say haha they're literally devils in disguise!
Galen 🌻·
@armywife14, oh I understand that! the main reason we have issues is because one day we were all coming inside and I had two of my girlfriends over to visit after finding out I was pregnant.. my MIL comes out her mouth and says something similar to, "you better pray to God nothing happens to the baby like it doesn't die" I went tf off. I told her she better pray to God she wakes up in the morning and don't die in her sleep. like why would you say that to someone?! especially when that is one thing I worry about every second of every day since I found out. I understand what she was TRYING to say but she doesn't think before she talks ever. I simple, "we should pray to God that you have a healthy baby and pregnancy." I'd be like omg that's sweet thank you but NOPE no logical thinking done in her head.
Amanda·
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@babynumber1, my MIL knows better than to say something like that, we had a miscarriage months before finding out I was pregnant again. if she'd have said that
......I digress. my MIL is 2 faced, she's nice and wants to be a part of things when im.around but expects me to keep her in the loop but I don't hear from her unless I text her first so I stopped. So thus we don't talk. but I've been in your shoes!
Autumn Heie·
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I can relate to all of these!