Sometimes I wish I lived alone with my other two kids but I'm 36 weeks pregnant and no job or support from anyone. My fiancé thinks he doesn't need to call me if he's going to be late after work sometime all the dinner I cook goes to waste.. Then he takes care of his daughter Thursday and Friday nights after work at his moms because the girl he cheated on me with and had a daughter with doesn't want me to go by their daughter so I don't even see him until Saturday afternoon I'm so fed up idk what to do he pays all the bills I don't even know where to turn to
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get a job after the baby and support yourself and your family. you don't need a man to be happy. I'm sure you're a wonderful momma! be strong for your babies and become independent. you can do this!! 💙 @lsaldivar
@noemysmom, lets not judge because we all have done some questionable things I know plenty of ppl who have survived infidelity and "outside" babies and their relationships are better and stronger shit happens . The thing that would indicate that this may not end well is the fact that he is allowing the woman who he cheated with to dictate the relationship between you and your mate because the fact that she can say the child can't be around you and he abide by this means that she has control in your relationship because look you are bothered by it. that shows shaky foundation no outsider no matter the circumstance should be able to dictate your relationship to a point that it causes turmoil. You need to be more mad at him for agreeing to her terms and you guys need to have a serious talk
he has a child with someone he cheated with.... and you stayed
That's weird! Are you a couple if so how does an outside woman dictate how a grown man cares for his kid when he has her! umm doesn't that mean your 2.5 kids are the little girls siblings ? do they get to be around her? I wouldn't accept that as the wife and he shouldn't accept her bossing him around like that unless it's more to it ijs I'll be praying it gets better for you
Yes I didn't know until she was 9 months it was his ex and by then I was already pregnate too and I have been fighting for our relationship this whole time but it seems pointless now. I have never accepted that she should decide what to say in our relationship but since I see him ignoring my requests.. I guess there will not be anymore of him and me I just have to wait out my pregnancy now because I really don't have anywhere to go or work thanks everyone for your input I really appreciate all the feedback!