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Christina Abbott
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Kinda long but need advice pls. Keep negative comments to yourself. So when i got pregnant i had just broke up with my…

Kinda long but need advice pls. Keep negative comments to yourself.

So when i got pregnant i had just broke up with my bf and got with somebody else. Obvious stated, idk who daddy is. Im back with my bf and have been for 98% of the pregnancy. It has been a rocky road and now that im a few weeks away mt bf is growing more and more hurt and confused as he wants her to be his. Along with this he has asked me to do a dna test while pregnant so if shes not his hes not suprised at birth along with the rest of his family. I dont know what to do, ive heard amniocentesis are very dangerous as far as miscarriages. I personally don't think the results would be back before she was born anywase as i only have 5 weeks left. So questions are is this risky to my child and would the results be back before she was born?

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aphrodite2014

Danielle

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I'm not sure but I'd ask your doctor if there is a less invasive way of finding out before or ask him how long it would take, but honestly the best is to just find out after the baby is born it's a fairly simple test and you can get it back fairly quickly

nappysgirl15

Christina Abbott

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That was the original plan. I think someone is telling him to request this bc it hasn't been a problem tell now.

fifismommy

Sarah

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If u only have five weeks less id ask him to wait it out because if it has high misscarige rate then I would risk it

twinmommy523

Brianna

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I just read there is a low risk of miscarriage and it takes 5-7 business days.

nappysgirl15

Christina Abbott

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@twinscomingsoon, were did you find that info pls. If its safe i dont mind doing this for him. I can only imagine how hard this is for him. I just wont risk my child for it.

nappysgirl15

Christina Abbott

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece…

so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????

Ugh (long) So yesterday I heard my sister and her Bf fighting. To the point I had to yell downstairs to stop it. (I…

Ugh (long) So yesterday I heard my sister and her Bf fighting. To the point I had to yell downstairs to stop it. (I heard my sister yell something, Something banging on the wall, then her Bf yelling) so I yelled 'what is going on in my house?!' The Bf yelled back my sister tripped him and he hit his head and wouldn't let him leave. I yelled to let him go. So she did. Two hours later he came back(to get some of his stuff) and came upstairs to tell me he was moving out. Ok fine. Idc (personally I don't know how she can be with him. He's a pos of a person) I tell him they need to figure out the living situation down there like adults. I guess his mom was here too. They both walked out the side door (my SO right there cleaning out the garage) my SO asked if he was really moving out and he responded that yes he was moving out.

Yall I'm so pissed right now! My husband has no respect I swear to god he is annoying some times! My mom called me up…

Yall I'm so pissed right now! My husband has no respect I swear to god he is annoying some times! My mom called me up and we talked for over 20 minutes. She said she had her stuff packed and ready to leave her bf because of some drama with his grandchild (6yr old calling her a bitch, hitting her, slapping her, and telling her he hates her) so I told her if she wants or ever needs to she can come stay the night or move back it doesn't matter to me that my house is always her home too! She said she took the kid to his mom's work and dropped him off and was on his way back so she decided to stay there for now and she will see what happens. Thays fine. So I went and told my husband and before I could tell him everything about the situation I was pissed cause he opened his big ass mouth and I got defensive! I started to say my mom packed her stuff and was going to come stay here for a night and before I could say she changed her mind he said "Omg! I hope you talked her out of it!". So he apparently is annoyed by my mom. Which I don't really give a fuck if she annoys him she is my mom and is always welcome and no I won't ever "talk her out" of coming to stay! I love when my mom is around! Besides that, I have offered his dad a room in our home multiple times! He and his gf are currently living in our yard in a camper that my mom got them! So how does he have the right to say that? He hopes I changed her mind?!? Haha nah dude you best check who the fu is house this is 😂 this shits mine, my moms, and my sisters. Needless to say I flipped out and made sure he realized how stupid he was for opening his dam mouth🙄 men are so stupid sometimes I swear