I think because im 20, losing friends is alot more emotionally distressing for me. I was the first to get married, the…
I think because im 20, losing friends is alot more emotionally distressing for me. I was the first to get married, the first to have a baby. And during that whole time i watched all my friend (old and new) slowly dwindle down to non. I've always been a social butterfly, so this feeling of...being utterly alone hurts so badly. I try to reach out, to talk to people, to invite them over for dinner. But im always denied and then a few hours later i see them doing the activity i suggested with a group of other people. Maybe im being too emotional about it, but it hurts so badly. I hardly leave the house anymore and the only people i speak to outside of family are my sons therapists. I'm so depressed. Idk how to do this
rosierosado·
Мама сына (1 год)
@myjulyprincesseli i wish you loved closer as well. itd make things so much better. thanks you @desiree for the words of wisdom. its true. i should start looking at it that way. @daisyr3 thanks lol. i wish you were also closer. we could all be friends. @mommybk2016 id love that
mrshernandez·
Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (36 нед.)
@rosierosado, let do this girl lets go out have dinner have fun i just move to brooklyn and i been feeling the aame i dont know anybody here to hang out so imhere for u :)
Daisy Ruiz·
Мама дочки-младенца
i would totally be your friend and have dinners and do random things together because i know that feeling but we live so far from eachother lol 😩
desiree·
Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (20 нед.)
I went through that in my early 20's too and all i could think about was a lesson my mother tried to teach me in my teens. She would always tell me there is no such thing as having a bunch of friends because in the end they all move on once they find no use for u. I never believed her but here i am at 28 with only a couple ppl i can actually call my friends. Its sad but you'll be fine. Just try to make new friends with the same interests as you.
Andrea M.·
Мама дочки-младенца
well I wish we lived close by! we could've completed that missing piece to each other just to have a friend to hang out with.. I'm sorry you're feeling that way may that sadness vanish quick and you find new friends to have fun with ♡
rosierosado·
Мама сына (1 год)
@myjulyprincesseli, thats exactly how i feel. i guess im not out of the crying stage just yet. i keep hoping someone will finally answer my messages from weeks ago or maybe even just go to the movies with....but at this point i know its a lost cause
Andrea M.·
Мама дочки-младенца
I completely understand I've had my days where I cry about it and my husband doesn't understand how much I need people to communicate and connect with... but I've gotten over that it just sucks not having anyone to have any fun with since I also got married young and just had my baby....