His family and mine since his moms not here to throw one but mine was

Honestly it's up to you tho. It's who you want there :) @puffball

@bentley_mommy, yeah I see

I had 50 people total and only 20 showed up. @puffball so it ended up working out. I invited them just so they felt like they were apart of it and also they still sent money and gifts as well so it worked out perfectly for me.

@bentley_mommy, did it make it too big I already have 50 people with my family and friends and I didn't want a huge shower. I invited his mom, grandma and sisters and the mom's close friend but I didn't invite all their cousins.... and now it seems like the mom is having a problem with it. one of our close family friends is throwing me the shower. so I didn't think it was wrong if I didn't invite Hella people from his side. especially since I'm not close to them

I invited everyone on both sides friends/family @puffball