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Brianna Clark
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NEED ADVICE! I'm having the urge to settle a 4-6 month long argument between myself and my brother in laws baby momma. I…

NEED ADVICE!

I'm having the urge to settle a 4-6 month long argument between myself and my brother in laws baby momma. I said some mean things to her, and meant every word of it, because it was true (it was things that are just better left unsaid)... But I feel like the tension at family parties is really extreme and even grandma speaks about forgiveness lately.

Should I pull her aside and be a woman about it? I'm not taking back what said, but we should be grown, IMO.

Help?! I just don't know what to say.

To add, the fight between us is has caused my husband and brother to have no communication for this period of time and it's really making me feel bad because they are brothers.

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mrsrodgersof4

Sharae Rodgers

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

You can forgive all day long. But do you have to deal with ppl you dont want to be bothered with, NO... I dont deal with my brother-in-law and his wife either. I refuse to deal with or be around negative nasty ppl. Especially when you have tryed to be nice to them so many times.

scc2413

Sydney

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I'd honestly just try and settle the waters. If she wants to continue not speaking that's on her, at least you tried being the bigger person. Ever since getting pregnant my boyfriends grandma and I don't get along and it's super awkward around her because she's just very rude and disrespectful to me. Even he says she has no reason to act like that she just does. I hated being around her for a while but for the sake of creating tension between my boyfriend and her plus the baby on the way, I just pretend to be nice and tolerate her.

momof.2boys

Brianna Clark

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Thank you. I don't know how she's going to react if I pull her aside, but for the sake of my husbands relationship with his brother, I'm willing to do this. It's just gone on for too long and I want to be the bigger person. @theirmommy_2

theirmommy_3

Jenni

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (37 нед.)

well you i think you should for your husband, and if she doesnt keep the peace then its on her, but hopefully ypur hb and bro can work things out

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