after sleeping in my son's room last night (he slept with daddy in my bed) I now understand why he doesn't like it. I had a total of 3 nightmares and was so happy when morning came. either this pregnancy has me tripping or there's something in his room
Pray in his room and anoint the walls with oil idk what your spiritual beliefs are but It works if you have faith
I totally understand that, but I do think it is possible to get rid of the bad spirits though. I just prayed for God to watch over me when I sleep and to not let me be afraid. It kind of helped realizing that if you have the LIGHT inside you, the dark cannot physically harm you. They can still scare you though. To a child it is so much worse. I hope you get rid of it soon and don't lose too much sleep over this.
@tamayobaby, a dream catcher and prayer might work. @babymay2016 glad you got rid of yours. I'm going to do son's research on sage. this house harbours too many bad things I just want to get out.
I really do believe that sage does help, if you look up the proper ways to do it. I definitely don't see any harm in it. It took years and years for me to rid myself of the bad spirits that were in my house. I never physically saw them but an ex girlfriend and I went through a lot of shit with this one spirit and she would not sleep over for years because she said it would sit by my side and watch her. So many scary things happened and I blame my terrible attendance to middle and high school on the fact I NEVER slept. I would stay up until the sun came up because I was scared. And I'm talking even until I was 17 because my parents did NOT believe me. I would try sage first but for me the only thing that worked was praying about it. ANY night I forgot some shit would go down. My parents thought I was crazy.
my bf wants to get him a dream catcher im thinking about getting him prayed over and having someone come bless the house because its getting worse
@mrsdoyle, Oh man that sounds horrible!
@tamayobaby, he only fights when he has to be in his room. Even us staying in there till he falls asleep don't help. I thought at first it was regular night terrors or him just wanting to sleep with us until I found him on the couch
I wouldn't make him sleep there anymore. I don't know how much you believe but after dealing with those kinds of nightmares in my room I had something get attached to me, and he followed me everywhere. I saw him at school a lot. I was terrified to ever be alone. it just kept getting worse. I was 13 when it started. and 18 when I finally got rid of it
@babymay2016, i was thinking about getting some sage too. lol. I believe in ghosts and spirits so when I don't feel comfortable I'm not going to force him no more. sorry that happened to you
does your son fight his sleep sometimes cause my son has been havingnight mares everynight and he fights to go to sleep like right now hes fighting it but he sleepsin the same room as us just in hisplay pin
Wow I wish my parents ever did that for me. I swear I had the most terrible night terrors for SO many years and nobody would believe me that something was in there... then I still have nightmares about something being in my room/house and nobody in my entire family will believe me though it's right there in front of them. Crazy... burn some sage in that bitch. Lol that's all I wanted but my mom still to this day says that's bad..
yes. if he does fall asleep he wakes up wailing. it's the most horrible scream. he's with us now. he's only two but the other day I found him on the couch because he didn't want to be in there. @mrsdoyle
does your son refuse to sleep in there because he's scared? cause between that and hour bad experience I'd 100% let him sleep with you. I dealt with that for way to long!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does your SO ever notice?!?
Does your SO/DH notice when u do things around the house?!?! I ask because I dropped the kids off at school this am then spent about 3 of my 4 free hours cleaning the entire downstairs. Living room, dining room, powder room and kitchen. Like scrubbed counters, toilets moved couches vacuumed and mopped everything. My house was sparkling clean when he got home and didn't even notice!!! Like wtf I just spent hours cleaning u would think he would at least notice but no w...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
so i want my SO and my mom in the room during labor, but my SO says because i get to have my mom, he should have his in there. ive told him no a million times (no secret his mom and i hatteeee each other) but i feel like hes going to try to have her there anyway and ill get so mad ill probably kick him out of the room too....any advice?
When I was little and finally got my own room I was having horrible nightmares. (Still do in my room). I always felt like I'm being watched and at times the thing would come over me and hold me down. Until I was 16ish I would have a dream of a little girl who protected me from this mass. The mass is still in my room watching me but it's stayed away.