Does anyone have a short cycle ( like 21-23 days) and still ovulate for sure? because I don't think that I do...is that an relatively easy problem to fix?
Tracking your temperature with a basal thermometer can help determine ovulation
Have you tried the ovulation testing strips? It doesn't matter how long your cycle is, start testing when your period is over every day and it will tell you when you're ovulating

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I tried the basal thermometer method it is very meticulous. I find it hard to keep up with and I don't know if I'm doing it right enough. so I get frustrated.