"hormones"
my SO has this friend who is a girl. I am cool with her and she respects me but lately I've just hated having her around. she comes over almost every night to smoke with my bf. I used to not care, till now. lately I've felt like a bother to him like we haven't had sex, he'd rather jack off, and we've been having other problems left and right. he lied to me one day about when he had gotten off work. turns out he had been off for two hours and him and a friend of his went to her house to drop off bud. he wasn't going to tell me. now every time she comes over I feel like he gives her looks that id beg for. he looks at her like she hung the stars and he listens to her when she talks and laughs at all her jokes.. i watch it and it hurts me to see him give her the attention id kill for.. she's has a boyfriend but I know she cheated on her bf with a different dude, so I don't trust her. worst of all, when she cheated she told my SO about it and he told her not to tell her bf. I was like wtf, do you think that's OK? it's all been piling up and I feel like all my feelings and emotions are valid but he keeps telling me it's hormones and that I'm "trippin". I don't think he'd cheat but I really don't know what to think anymore.
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I've been in a situation like that with my ex. Go with ur intuition, it will never lead u in the wrong direction. A woman's intuition, 9 times out of 10 is right. If you feeling uncomfortable about it, I say sit down with both of them and talk to them about it calmly. If both of them get defensive about it, then u already know what it is. If she is a real woman she will understand and step back. And he can't do anything but respect it because of the way you approached the situation.
my mama always said don't leave a woman around ya man.
You better keep that woman out of your house. Coming over everyday? That's intolerable!
i would watch them closely u nice because uh i would act a plum fool...i wish my bf would talk about a friend coming over thats a broad...he already know what my words r i am ur female friend df outta here.but jus sit down n tell him how u feel!!
Yea she don't need to be coming over almost every day to spend time with your boyfriend I would tell her to back off seriously hoes don't care about other people relationships and he should respect the fact that it bothers you and end it better yet get you a guy friend and see if he likes it!
You're not at all overreacting. I would be pissed and upset and not put up with it! I'm sorry you're putting up with that, I know it hurts :(
I'm sure he doesn't feel that way, I've notice mine change alittle too i asked him about it and he opened up and told me that he's not scared to be a daddy he's scared that he'll mess up so he focuses on other things, may be that's what's going on@kristandley but try me i get it i feel like he treats me like a child and he'd rather be with his friends
@hermommy, like he used to look at me that way! now I'm just a burden! 😞
You too, no sex but rather jack off? I hate that! I got so mad at my husband when I caught him doing that, it makes me feel like I'm less of a woman 😧 you are feeling a way, I would be feeling as well and I'm pretty sure other mommies as well!