viennasmommy016
Briana Denisi
I love my boyfriend to death but he hasn't been the best with helping me and alternating between feedings, diapers, etc. He works two jobs I don't want to force him to always take care of our daughter even tho I always take care of her BC I know he's tired, its just that I'm going back to school next week and back to work in March and I could use a break or a little help especially that I'm a ftm and I'm trying to adjust. He really wanted this baby and i feel like he does nothing to contribute besides snuggling with her . Our daughter is one month, am I over exaggerating ? should he not be helping with those things? Everytime I have to ask him to make a bottle or filter the humidifier, little things like that he gets super pissed every time I ask :(
8.2 лет
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I had a simular issue with my husband try sitting down with him after baby goes to sleep and talk with him it maybe that he feels nervous or scared because of being a new daddy my husband would get so upset if I asked him to watch our daughter why I go get my nails done or something small like that I finally broke down and asked him what his issue was and since then he has been more willing to help and take my advice on what to do just remind him if this is the problem for him that your only a phone call away and it's ok to be nervous or scared my husband has a very high demanding job and I teach kids and watch them at there home so I can take her with me I love this but sometimes I get over worked because I do pull a lot of the weight all in all talk to him about it see how he feels it may just be he is nervous good luck hun hope things get a little easier for u
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I had a simular issue with my husband try sitting down with him after baby goes to sleep and talk with him it maybe that he feels nervous or scared because of being a new daddy my husband would get so upset if I asked him to watch our daughter why I go get my nails done or something small like that I finally broke down and asked him what his issue was and since then he has been more willing to help and take my advice on what to do just remind him if this is the problem for him that your only a phone call away and it's ok to be nervous or scared my husband has a very high demanding job and I teach kids and watch them at there home so I can take her with me I love this but sometimes I get over worked because I do pull a lot of the weight all in all talk to him about it see how he feels it may just be he is nervous good luck hun hope things get a little easier for u
No ! He needs to help to. Don't feel bad for asking for help. And if he can't then maybe someone in his fam could. It's also important for him to do feedings and changes and rocking for bondings...mine didn't help much and seriously my daughter could live without him. She didn't even want him to hold her for months
Same thing with my fiancé he works 8am - 5pm & comes home & goes to sleep at 8 pm occasionally he helps but only when I beg him he thinks because I'm home with the baby all I do is sleep but it's the total opposite he says its so easy but every time I ask for help (especially when he has off) he says he's to tired as if he's the only one allowed to be tired. personally I don't think your overreacting because i know how you feel but I hope your situation gets better !