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Kimberly
mamaducky94
Kimberly
sorry this is a rant!!! but I'm on Facebook just watching a video well I was like ok I wonder what people are saying? when I went and looked most of them are how this is cute. it's the buzzfeed video with puking babies well yeah it isn't cute but one comment on there kind of got to me. Well it was on breast feeding and a lot of mother were talking about how breastfed babies don't spit up that much unlike formula fed. Well I have never been this mad over something like that usually I'm like what ever. Just saying some of those mom response were just idiotic like the fuck brah. Most of them kept it to I have noticed that they don't puke that much but than a few handful went to breast milk is the only good thing and moms just quit so fast from doing it. also moms who have clogged ducts you can still breast feed it'll help unclog them but I'm like that's shots painful like no thank you . And maybe one or two maybe three were trying to explain well if it wasn't for this he would starve and pretty much they were told they didn't try hard enough or that you can go buy breast milk. So I'm like this is why I'm mad it's because one not all moms can afford that, two why the fuck are moms telling other moms they didn't try hard enough it's fucking rude, three if I took it out of context and that's not what they meant my bad but personally I couldn't breastfeed even though I really tried it just wasn't going to happen but I don't know personally I'm not critizing moms for breastfeeding or hating on them for pumping ya know it's healthy yes but so is formula and sometimes even though your child doesn't take to it it's probably cause he or she could be lactose intolerant or it just doesn't do their bellies justice I should know i have had to switch to a completely new formula which I found to work for my pumpkin but non the less it just pisses me off that moms can be so judgemetal towards other moms choices i sound like I'm getting off subject a little but . . . even one comment was like oh I think that they might put some type of drug in the formula so the baby craves more. . . . I wanted to say the fuck girl what drugs you on . . . . if a baby is drinking something they have had for a while now it's what they usually go for to get fed . . . . like the fuck I know some formula were recalled for certaint things but drugs the fuck sorry for the language and this lady is telling people you should stick to breast feeding only like ok she didn't even know what clogged milk ducts were . . . . I'm pretty sure my brain took a poop and said good by I'm so frustrated on how some moms do5 this and yeah it's great that you can do it but some people can't or really don't want too and I'm pretty sure that post made some moms pretty upset I would if I say that like 5 months ago you know I don't think we should be making mothers feel terrible for a choice that is still feeding their babies and making them happy I personally found when I switch to formula that my baby was so much more happier than when I was breast feeding it was hard on both of us and sorry for so many errors I really don't notice when I fuck up on things because I'm mad
05.02.2016

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mamaducky94
mamaducky94
@jessilee318, also if you do formula I found if you warm it a little it helps a little more than straight room temp
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mamaducky94
mamaducky94
I agree and yeah don't worry and I know how you feel i was going to try but I ended up not being able to and I felt horrible but than I realized it wasn't because the fact I coildbt breastfeed it was because how jugemental people were when I got formula or told my doctor who in fact is a great doctor just felt a while bunch of judgement but I like to say do what's best for your family and don't let people put you down if you feel akward or having a real tough time than yeah personally it was kind of weird for me too I'm also a first time mom well my baby is going to be 7 months pretty soon but having a baby in gerenal is learning curve it take time and what also kind of upsets me is how because so many people have like 1 or 5 kids make,them a expert all babies are different
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jessilee318
jessilee318
@mamaducky94 exactly. the mothers out there who don't even care enough to try and be a mom - they are one thing. but its not anyone else's business how a woman feeds her baby as long as her baby is fed. that's how I feel anyway. personally I feel like I am going to feel way too awkward trying to breastfeed... I will try if I can but if I just do not feel right or if it doesn't go smoothly then I will do what's best for me and baby. dont want her to sense me being tense. of course I am a first time mom so I don't know what to expect but that's part of it - learning - with your child what's best for them ... and for you.
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mamaducky94
mamaducky94
@jessilee318, I know and its really sad I personally would have never in like a million years have thought other moms want to out mom others and I mean yeah there are moms who definitely do get out momed because they aren't moms to there kids but god i think there's more to worrie about than how a child is being fed
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mamaducky94
mamaducky94
oh wow totally the opposite only thing happen she wasn't gaining and was only colic a little bit
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jessilee318
jessilee318
amen. its each mothers choice. no one has the right to judge. so tired of feeling like I have to make decisions about my baby discretely so as not to face harsh judgment from other women with children.
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autumnrae
autumnrae
I'm with ya!!! my daughter spit up my milk like crazyyyyyy and would gain weight so I had to switch and so many people hate on me for it!
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mamaducky94
mamaducky94
😐😐😐😐😶😐😧😱😓 brah sorry for all the errors
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b3autifulm3ss
b3autifulm3ss
😐😩
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