idk how you ladies wait until your 18-20 week anatomy scan to find out the gender!! I found out at 13 weeks and I'm doing the same with this one. I have no patience!
it wasn't that I chose it at my ob they told me I had to wait to be at least 10 weeks, then changed it to 15, and lastly changed it to 18 so by my 15 week my husband and I couldn't wait any longer so we went to a 3d ultrasound and checked gender there