my daughter came 2 1/2 weeks early. weighed 6lbs 15oz. my mom told me I over reacted. but if that's true why did my epidural fail, and spinal injection 3x in the O.R. ? I was put to sleep had a emergency c section. throughout 15 hours of labor, they gave me sleep meds. they didn't take affect until after birth. i went to two hospitals because the first one said i was fine. i knew they were wrong. baby was born 6:23pm I didn't see my baby until 1:43 am. problems occurred after . I was put in a catscanner. I did my walk to see if I'm ready to go home. when I made it back to my hospital bed I passed out. never knew why. it's hard knowing that I had a baby and I have no clue what went wrong or why. she is here and healthy but I wish I had the chance to push. I wish I knew what happened. I never got the feeling of her placed on my chest. or hearing her first cry. never got my family photo. what did I do so wrong ? 😢
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That's really hard. you are not over reacting. Maybe you can get your hospital records. good luck and congratulations!
thank you, all anyone to this day will tell me is that I was still in the operating room when her dad brought her in my assigned room to see everyone. and that he was crying. why is everyone so afraid to tell me the truth? she's 3 years old now and im missing a big piece of life. after finding out I was pregnant at 2 months along I always thought I would be the mom that didn't make it after childbirth. was I close to that ? I finally have courage to ask and all they say is I overreacted. they don't perform surgery for an overreaction. 😦
im so sorry this happened to you 😒 wish i could offer some support but she is healthy is #1 but at least now u have the rest of ur life to spend together on the up side
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So mommies I think it's time to pack for hospital:
What did you really need for your stay, that you brought or wished you did: For yourself for hubby & for baby?
I wasn't ready to be single, I wasn't ready to let go of my best friend. I wasn't ready to brake up my little family 😢 why does love have to hurt so much!?
I'm so confused what did I do wrong? Once again another sleepless night!
I miss him so much, he stays running through my mind its like a broken record stuck on replay
I wish he knew what he had
I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.
thank you ladies