I really hate some people. I have been out of work for a little over a month due to complications with my pregnancy. My baby's father and I work together.. Now he's worked there for over 5 years and me over 1 year. There are seriously some people who just don't stay out of your business. Ever since I found out I got pregnant rumors have started to fly... People saying I got pregnant on purpose.... I DIDNT! My iud fell out. I literally had no idea. I knew he didn't want anymore kids than the one he had. Then after I thought that was over with people started accusing me of sleeping with two other coworkers. I would never! I love my baby's father more than anything. Now there is a woman there that hates me and calls me a bitch saying using him and controlling him... All because of his two work friends... Saying I'm keeping him from them, and because if I need anything from the store I ask him before he leaves work... Apparently these friends are saying I blocked them from contacting his phone too. I do pay for his phone and do so willingly... I don't go through it or anything. I don't know what to do. I just wish these people would truly mind their own business and stay out of ours. I don't want him to be asked to choose between these people or me and the baby. I personally would never ask that of him... Am I wrong for wanting to find a new place to work and to move out of the place we share so that hopefully the drama stops for him? I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I'm sorry this is so long and I'm ranting.
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don't give them that victory, don't quit your job for people that doesn't have a life.
Smfh, pay them no mind, they only worry about people business cause they don't have their own danm life. you know who you are boo, and hr does too so that's all that matter.
It's really sad these grown ass adults are acting like high schoolers. You'd think that they'd want him to be happy. Nope instead they'd rather try to ruin a relationship. Pretty sad if you ask me. When I found out that I was pregnant I was very honest about it with him and even gave him the option to walk away. I told him I understood he didn't want anymore kids and that if he wanted to walk away that was fine and I wouldn't go after him for anything. There was a lot of drama and unnecessary hurt done to me when he found out. He did try to bully me into an abortion. Told me it was either him or my pregnancy. I packed my things and left. He begged me to come home. This happened again a few months later minus asking me to have an abortion. So I left no questions asked. I love him to death and respected that he wanted me to leave... Within two weeks again he begged me to come home so I did. He has apologized for asking me to go against my morals and thanked me for hanging in there while he came to terms with me being pregnant. Due to these people at work filling his head with shit I do believe that he still thinks that I got pregnant on purpose. He has never really been happy about this pregnancy and I understand. He did sit with me at the er for over 7 hours while I was bleeding and thinking I might be having a miscarriage at 16 weeks. He saw the ultrasound he held my hand the entire time and told me everything was going to be ok. Was there when I found out what I was having and then again when I had to see a specialist because the doctors thought she had some serious health issues. I just wish these people would let their pettiness go and let us deal with our issues without them butting in when their opinions aren't asked for or needed.