Does it make me childish if I tell the father if my child he can't see his daughter if he doesn't buy her anything I've been buying since I found out the sex at 16 weeks I lost my job last month so I'm not working and we don't have everything he said after Christmas he was going to start buying for her but he hasn't he's been going out of town drinking smoking and going to the club every weekend I'm due in April but I want to be prepared before April gets here and he's not helping nd its making me angry
@dymond, I was doing good until I lost my job and its getting closer to my due date and I'm just scared I want be prepared
dang do y'all live together I'm so sorry he cheated I don't do well with that I probley would of packed up and left
Oh wow honey im so sorry to hear that! I know this may sound easier said then done but do the BEST you can to not think about him right now. If you look at my posts you'll see so much back and fourth about my girl's father it's crazy, but try your best to focus on you and your baby. The way I see it, you will stress, it won't change how he acts, and he is chilling. I learned that the hard way.
@katelynn, he left me for another woman when I was four months so basically he walked out and told me he wasn't obligated to do nothing but be there and I just don't think its fair
@dymond, thanks for the honesty I'm a ftm so I'm new to it I guess I'm just angry because he cheated and left me for another girl and her daughter I was four months and already behind on bills because I could barely work from being sick and it's like he doesn't even care about nothing he's just living life like he doesn't have five kids and one on the way
I think it is wrong just bc he won't buy things but u need to ask him if he is committed to u and the baby
we just naturally wanna prepare for the future. this fool went half on the nursery furniture and thats all. but im not gonna threaten him. ill show his ass when the baby gets here
yes and no. but honestly they are all fucking stupid. nor do they think like us as women and mothers
Yes, it kinda does. Denying him the right to see and bond with his child is pretty wrong because he isn't buying her anything yet. Hopefully the closer to the baby's due date, he will began to buy. I've bought 95% of my daughters stuff and could care less what my daughters dad does or doesn't buy because I personally want to make sure she has no needs left unturned, but I couldn't hold that over his head and prevent him from seeing her. I would simply continue to do for my child and forget about what he does or doesn't you in my honest opinion. Much love sister!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
(Thread Closed) Let’s go out with a bang
Let all the dramas unfold! I blame Jessica Alba
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
@katelynn, I put him out and told him to go be happy