@katelynn, I put him out and told him to go be happy

@dymond, I was doing good until I lost my job and its getting closer to my due date and I'm just scared I want be prepared

dang do y'all live together I'm so sorry he cheated I don't do well with that I probley would of packed up and left

Oh wow honey im so sorry to hear that! I know this may sound easier said then done but do the BEST you can to not think about him right now. If you look at my posts you'll see so much back and fourth about my girl's father it's crazy, but try your best to focus on you and your baby. The way I see it, you will stress, it won't change how he acts, and he is chilling. I learned that the hard way.

@katelynn, he left me for another woman when I was four months so basically he walked out and told me he wasn't obligated to do nothing but be there and I just don't think its fair

@taniell123, thanks for being honest

@dymond, thanks for the honesty I'm a ftm so I'm new to it I guess I'm just angry because he cheated and left me for another girl and her daughter I was four months and already behind on bills because I could barely work from being sick and it's like he doesn't even care about nothing he's just living life like he doesn't have five kids and one on the way

I think it is wrong just bc he won't buy things but u need to ask him if he is committed to u and the baby

we just naturally wanna prepare for the future. this fool went half on the nursery furniture and thats all. but im not gonna threaten him. ill show his ass when the baby gets here

yes and no. but honestly they are all fucking stupid. nor do they think like us as women and mothers

Yes, it kinda does. Denying him the right to see and bond with his child is pretty wrong because he isn't buying her anything yet. Hopefully the closer to the baby's due date, he will began to buy. I've bought 95% of my daughters stuff and could care less what my daughters dad does or doesn't buy because I personally want to make sure she has no needs left unturned, but I couldn't hold that over his head and prevent him from seeing her. I would simply continue to do for my child and forget about what he does or doesn't you in my honest opinion. Much love sister!!