I can't with the castor oil. I have to block every person who mentions trying that. Way too close to…

so sad:( these women don't know the affects

@hermommy, nope. "Somebody" always tells them it's cool. But I bet they never get that from someone who legit did it.

I seen that post and had to decide if I wanted to comment or not. Smh

I seen some posts. I just learned to keep my mouth shut.

It's really REALLY hard for me to not snap out. Most times I just keep scrolling but sometimes I feel so bad if I don't at least try @searrahmone

As a preemie mom I get really freaking mad when I see people talking about trying to induce themselves early. Like just freaking wait until your baby and body are ready together!!!

@stephhhx3, I'm learning lol Sometimes I literally wanna cry. And then I get mad cause like, why do I care more about their babies than they do?!

If you tell someone not to drink draino because it will kill them, no one thinks anything of it. Mention not to risk your baby's life with castor and everyone jumps your shit. I don't know what post you're referring to here but it happens ALL the time. Smh.

Well I seen a post where a midwife has said it was okay to do. I just shake my damnnnnn head.

@brooklyn0516, ALL of them. @kimberlyyyy EXACTLY.

I block them too but there's no point in telling them that it's harmful and there are risks because that's not what they want to here.

@bellahali, I usually just share Camiyha's hashtags and keep it moving. If they wanna risk it, I pray it's worth it.

Camiyha's story is EXACTLY why I've been telling people for months that "I did it and my baby is fine" is NOT an excuse to give deadly advice like drinking castor oil.

if I was the one who told Camiyha's mother that she'd be fine, I would feel like absolute shit for what happened. or if someone told me to do it and that happened to my baby I would HATE the mother who told me it was fine.

people are to self centered to think about anyone but themselves.

@crunchymomma AGREED! I know part of the reason Camiyha hasn't even seen her mom in almost 4 weeks is because of her guilt. She doesn't even acknowledge her because that would include acknowledging what she did to her!!!

@tayek, would be nice to know the story rather than a trolling post about it where people come and talk crap about it. you never know you could change someone's opinion on it but like I said I don't know the story so please do share it

@blessedmamaofboys, If you'd like to know the story, click the hashtag and start reading from the beginning. #prayersForCamiyha I'm sure no one means ill will towards you, but those of us who have followed this story are very sensitive to the use of castor oil.

I never knew it was dangerous. as my aunt points out the rules when she was pregnant compared to now are vastly different.

What irks me is someone stating they are "aware" of the risks and how they don't want negative feedback of how they're gonna do it anyway!

I see now and also am aware of the fact that your cousin drank half a bottle at 34 weeks gestation at 4lbs? clearly the baby was not ready and I dont know why anyone would recommend doing that so yes that's very selfish I understand. also @babywhale you can refer to me that's perfectly fine I'm not offended in anyway. opinions are always welcome but mom bashing isn't so I think we can all be grown adults right?

@blessedmamaofboys, it'd be even nicer if you'd read instead of being snarky. Click in the hashtags or find another post. It's not my job to spoonfeed and I post what I want, when I want. You aren't tagged so nobody was looking for you. I know what nice is...I also know what trolls are.

Hashtags are click able for a reason. I guess being a bad ass online was more tempting than a little research. *shrugs*

my first son came out by induction and he was a big boy healthy but went through stress just with pitocin so I almost had a c section because he almost got stuck and had bruising around his head. came out at 10lbs 4 oz , 23 1/2 inches long at 39 weeks. 38/39 weeks is full term not 34 weeks they are not fully developed. I do understand why you would be upset about that 😳

@tayek, that your neice or daughter

@elainelove907, she's my baby cousin. @blessedmamaofboys I got so frustrated with her mom because Camiyha needed more time, and there was no real reason. I wouldn't have batted an eye if she got her doctor to do it in the right setting. I just wish she gave her a chance and now she won't even deal with her.

awe too cute no disrespect to the mother but I thought you were her mother just by the way you say things and im sorry your going thur thus prayers for her

@tayek ^^^

I was not at all being snarky I was simply stating that I didn't know the story because I don't follow you or have ever seen your posts.

@elainelove907, if her mom can't/won't step up, I WILL be. I want that lil' baby to have everything. I'll always feel like we owe her a year for every day she's been in the hospital.

it's very sad and your absolutely right to feel the way you do about it.

@blessedmamaofboys, my sincere apologies if I misread you. I get too sensitive about her, but I don't intend to be rude.

@tayek, good thar she has you she needs someone on her side

it's fine and definitely understandable now that I know. I hope she gets better and goes home soon!

@blessedmamaofboys, thank you! She's gotten stronger for sure. She hasn't mastered feeding yet. When the feeding tube is out and she swallows without choking, they'll let us bring her.

are you going to be able to take her home?

@blessedmamaofboys, if her mom refuses, my husband and I will. We are her guardians and have power of attorney about her medical stuff. I want custody but part of me hopes her mama will step in. So far she's only into her own life again. We are absolutely willing to take care of the baby forever though.

I commend you for stepping in for that beautiful baby! Especially being that your expecting yourself. Keep speaking your experience mama! Hopefully those who get 'mad' dont learn the hard way!!! Sometimes you just dont know until it hits you close to home.

I'll pray for her.

I truly HATE to admit this (please don't block me @tayek ) with my second oldest I was 4 days away from my due date already having contractions and was told to try castor oil. I used 2TBS of it and instantly regretted it. I went to the hospital the next morning and they sent me home. I had her the following day and she had a bowel movement in the womb (luckily didn't ingest any of it) and had another as I was pushing her shoulders out. they monitored her to make sure she didn't get any in her lungs... God definitely blessed my daughter with being healthy although I made a stupid decision!!!

I am 100% with you on not using it to start labor! I warn every mother who says anything about it!!! You are an amazing woman for stepping in and taking over the mother this beautiful baby girl needs! You're an inspiration to all the mothers here!

@happilymarriedmommaoffour, I wouldn't block you for that. You made a MISTAKE. Girls like my cousin know the risks, have all the facts. YOU also didn't dump your baby off. Thank you for stepping up, both for your sweet baby girl AND for other babies whose moms want to rush them out. 💖