you really should maybe she'll understand hun:) just tale deep breaths talk calmly but sturn enough for hee to understand how serious you feel about it @1sttimemommy96

Yes she knows my story. Though I haven't explained how I feel about it. Maybe I should. Thanks so much @holliesmommytobe

does she know your story? if I had a boy I was gonna name him Austen after the father but my cousin then got pregnant and asked me not to name him that bc she wants to name her son that in honor of her sister granted the spellings was different I respected her, maybe I would explain the situation to her and that it really does bother you. and if she doesn't care then I'd say she doesn't really care about your feelings and how you feel and I'd question my friend ship that's just me tho. @1sttimemommy96

I tried talking to her about it without trying to seem mad or upset just incase they did have a reason. I started by telling her that I chose that name because my parents weren't able to have a boy (instead only 4 girls) and when she got pregnant with twin boys my dad wanted to name them Alexander and Sean but she lost both. And that's why I chose Alexander. And she said she didn't like the name Zander which her boyfriend liked so they settled on Alexander so that they could have it both ways. @holliesmommytobe

I think in a way it's wrong on both ends, like it's wrong of them knowing that you picked it out and they couldn't come up with their own name, and I feel it's wrong on ur end bc maybe she and he has a logical reason for choosing that name, like maybe it actually means something to them. and if it doesn't I would try talking to them ask why they choose that name, and you feel like it's taking your thunder bc u choose that name first

They knew. Everyone knew. Probably should have kept our names to ourselves. @lakilucid

that's why I refuse to reveal our name choices to anyone.

I think its pretty rude if they knew.