Losing a parent in general is the worst but losing a parent while your pregnant is 10x as hard to deal with. Today marks 3 months that my mom has left it feels like the closer I get to the end the more depressed I get . I am super emotional and my mind plays images of her like a movie I just wish heaven had a phone . 😔👼🏽

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rgaine
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Re: 1st message Not hear.... Heal quickly

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Glad to help, @babycabralsmom What I've learned about grief is that it's different for everyone, you don't hear quickly (if ever- sometimes it's more about learning to handle your grief) and that it's helpful to find someone that understands the same type of grief and is in close to the same stage of grief. I'll attach a photo of the book. (I read it a piece at a time as needed.) and a couple grief share screen shots so that you can start searching for groups that may pop up near you or at least sign up for the emails.

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babycabralsmom

@rgaine, thank you so much I really needed this. And yes I am a believer of Christ. You are so right it catches you off guard . I catch myself crying at the weirdest times . I will look into these things if you can inbox me more info that would be great

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rgaine
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I'm not sure if you're Christian but my dad passed away and I googled Grief Share. They have free group counseling and an email blast of 1 email a day for a year. Both helped me after recently losing my dad on my birthday. Also, my condolences- joining this "losing a parent club" isn't something I'd wish on my worst enemy but I promise that the sharp edges of grief that catch you off guard (always at the worst times) start to wear down and you're able (in time) to handle the ambushes a little easier. Big hugs! Also- a great non-religious book recommended to me was Understanding Your Grief. It is cheap on Amazon and has 10 "touch points" to help you. It's worth the buy.

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babycabralsmom

@07motherearth16, @bella91 @jillmichelle thanks you guys 😘💕

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missing297user
missing297user·Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (34 нед.)

My condolences on your loss. Many blessings to you and yours. 😘

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bella91

awww you made me tear up, I'm so sorry for your loss and for your heavy heart and saddness, I pray God gets you through. ♡

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azmommy2016
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sorry for your loss, only tine will help heal. I couldn't imagine what your going through. prayers your way!

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