Losing a parent in general is the worst but losing a parent while your pregnant is 10x as hard to deal with. Today marks 3 months that my mom has left it feels like the closer I get to the end the more depressed I get . I am super emotional and my mind plays images of her like a movie I just wish heaven had a phone . 😔👼🏽
Glad to help, @babycabralsmom What I've learned about grief is that it's different for everyone, you don't hear quickly (if ever- sometimes it's more about learning to handle your grief) and that it's helpful to find someone that understands the same type of grief and is in close to the same stage of grief. I'll attach a photo of the book. (I read it a piece at a time as needed.) and a couple grief share screen shots so that you can start searching for groups that may pop up near you or at least sign up for the emails.
@rgaine, thank you so much I really needed this. And yes I am a believer of Christ. You are so right it catches you off guard . I catch myself crying at the weirdest times . I will look into these things if you can inbox me more info that would be great
I'm not sure if you're Christian but my dad passed away and I googled Grief Share. They have free group counseling and an email blast of 1 email a day for a year. Both helped me after recently losing my dad on my birthday. Also, my condolences- joining this "losing a parent club" isn't something I'd wish on my worst enemy but I promise that the sharp edges of grief that catch you off guard (always at the worst times) start to wear down and you're able (in time) to handle the ambushes a little easier. Big hugs! Also- a great non-religious book recommended to me was Understanding Your Grief. It is cheap on Amazon and has 10 "touch points" to help you. It's worth the buy.
My condolences on your loss. Many blessings to you and yours. 😘
awww you made me tear up, I'm so sorry for your loss and for your heavy heart and saddness, I pray God gets you through. ♡
sorry for your loss, only tine will help heal. I couldn't imagine what your going through. prayers your way!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Re: 1st message Not hear.... Heal quickly