I have a small rant..I am 19 and pregnant. my fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in May and moving into a house. My fiancés step dad is a proud man to say the least.. he keeps saying my child is a "mistake." Am I over reacting by getting so upset? He is a total jerk about it.
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I would be livid, he doesn't need to speak if he can't say anything nice.
It's an old person thing haha my boyfriends grandma asks me every time I see her when we're getting married and said that we need to get married or our son won't know the right love and blah blah blah. Her and I don't get along to begin with so hearing that every single time gets annoying. Last time she said something I told her not to ask me that again and she stopped but still makes snarky remarks to us.
Yea ... my grandpa calls my baby a bastard child and that she will grow up different because we aren't married..even though we have been together almost 7 years...but God knows who we are and has a path for us.. goes in one ear and out the other..if you are going to judge my child , she doesn't need to be around you.. sorry not sorry. @hollymh your baby is a blessing from God.
no. babies arent mistakes... they are a bundle of joy ^_^ and a wonderful suprise :)
No child is a mistake just life knew what u needed before u did
some older people feel babies born outside marriage are a mistake hell when me my husband got married 6mo later found out pregnant w/our daughter I was told I should abort as we were just starting out etc, I was around 24, it's hard but just brush it off the speak from experience an a time an look news now and everything that's going allot ppl use children as money pawns, pawns in general, relationships do change after baby sometimes good sometimes bad.. it's just how you take and go from there, I wouldn't read to much into it as he is just worried for everyone, may not know how to go about it. I sat my gma down told how what she was saying affected me etc
aww ): @hollymh I would be upset there is no reason to be that way towards you and your child.
Id be mad too!! Your baby is a blessing ♡ Not a mistake!!!!
No his step dad is saying it! My fiance can't stand it either. @kim5309
why is he saying it's a mistake? that doesnt sound very fiance like.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I am so upset! Went for my 33 week checkup and they told me I have 2 stds! I have not been with anyone other than my sons dad and he says he has been faithful to me I have been crying all morning!
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I'm 19 and pregnant and due in may and I don't get along with my husband's father either. I guess it can just be a thing. inlaws