...His friends and getting high are more important to him. He got mad at me when I got upset for the things he was saying to me when I asked to come over :(
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I smoked weed too but I had to give it up and I think so should he to at least care for his child.. and exactly @jessicahartze I don't want him stoned and trying to care for our daugjter.. it's nerve wracking. When she's older it's different but for at least the first year when she's born just limit it to when I have her or she's not around. doesn't seem like too much to ask for, right? and @marissacc22 thank you mommas
Well, as a smoker (weed) not while pregnant tho, I can understand his frustration. My bf smokes and as a rule, we cannot be high while caring for our child. meaning one of us is only allowed to be high at a time, it sucks because that's just our lifestyle but we make sacrifices for our children, because that's what parents do. I hope he can realize that
my Mans the same way he knows better. I hope for the sake of you and baby girl that he steps up and becomes a daddy like he should. good luck hunny.
I drove by there and his friends car is there. If it wasn't I was going inside @marissacc22 and he's been irresponsible for as long as I can remember @jessicahartze it'll be a miracle if he changes and steps up. @junebaby2016 and I'm scared he won't wanna be around her cause I won't let him smoke when she's born..
Hmm, well I'm sorry you have to deal with that, he could be trying to keep his irresponsible life (carefree) as long as possible. men do that because of the huge upcoming responsibilities.
yeah. before I was pregnant. it's almost like he's ashamed cause ever since we found out I'm not allowed over when his friends are there.. and I actually thought he was cheating on me cause of this behavior. and I mean it wouldn't be the first time he did.. @jessicahartze and the only time I ever go over to his house is at night cause I use the day time to spend time with my mom (she's really sick) and I work..
It makes me really sad... but he doesn't care.. He doesn't even think he's being mean.. @junebaby2016
I get that but ALL the time, has he ever let you hang out around them
Cause he wants alone time with his friends. that's what he told me @jessicahartze
lol why can't you hang out with him and his friends? that's what I'd be saying
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
@junebaby2016, just not when he's gotta take care of her, if I have her or she's with my mom or something it's fine. Cause I used to smoke too but I won't do it again until she's older