...His friends and getting high are more important to him. He got mad at me when I got upset for the…

lol why can't you hang out with him and his friends? that's what I'd be saying

Cause he wants alone time with his friends. that's what he told me @jessicahartze

@jessicahartze,

I get that but ALL the time, has he ever let you hang out around them

It makes me really sad... but he doesn't care.. He doesn't even think he's being mean.. @junebaby2016

yeah. before I was pregnant. it's almost like he's ashamed cause ever since we found out I'm not allowed over when his friends are there.. and I actually thought he was cheating on me cause of this behavior. and I mean it wouldn't be the first time he did.. @jessicahartze and the only time I ever go over to his house is at night cause I use the day time to spend time with my mom (she's really sick) and I work..

Hmm, well I'm sorry you have to deal with that, he could be trying to keep his irresponsible life (carefree) as long as possible. men do that because of the huge upcoming responsibilities.

I'd go over anyway you'd find out if he's cheating.

I drove by there and his friends car is there. If it wasn't I was going inside @marissacc22 and he's been irresponsible for as long as I can remember @jessicahartze it'll be a miracle if he changes and steps up. @junebaby2016 and I'm scared he won't wanna be around her cause I won't let him smoke when she's born..

my Mans the same way he knows better. I hope for the sake of you and baby girl that he steps up and becomes a daddy like he should. good luck hunny.

Well, as a smoker (weed) not while pregnant tho, I can understand his frustration. My bf smokes and as a rule, we cannot be high while caring for our child. meaning one of us is only allowed to be high at a time, it sucks because that's just our lifestyle but we make sacrifices for our children, because that's what parents do. I hope he can realize that

I smoked weed too but I had to give it up and I think so should he to at least care for his child.. and exactly @jessicahartze I don't want him stoned and trying to care for our daugjter.. it's nerve wracking. When she's older it's different but for at least the first year when she's born just limit it to when I have her or she's not around. doesn't seem like too much to ask for, right? and @marissacc22 thank you mommas

@junebaby2016, just not when he's gotta take care of her, if I have her or she's with my mom or something it's fine. Cause I used to smoke too but I won't do it again until she's older