Am I just tripping? Honestly?
Am I just tripping? Honestly?
I'm beginning to think my daughters father is obsessed and becoming super protective. I think it's wonderful when fathers genuinely want to be a part of their child's life, but when is it overboard? This is his first child (not my first), and he is excited, but every second he is posting on social media "first time daddy " this and that, to "I'm always going to be there no matter what" to my baby girl this and that. Now again, it's awesome that he wants to be in her life, but what's beginning to scare me is how much he does it, the fact that he is not happy that he can't be up under us in my home ALL the time, and then, he now wants to Skype when he can't be with us. I know many may say "girl be glad he wants to be there," but it feels so smothering to me it's crazy. Just today he said he was sad that he won't be able to see his baby girl because he got banned from my complex (Long story), even though I keep telling him we can always meet up, and I will bring her to him instead of him being here.
Am I tripping, or does this really sound like he is going to be (or try to be) up under us all the time? And I say is because he wants to be a family (him, I, and my children), but I left him for personal reasons.
Serious input needed please!
Tahtahme·
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I think Youre tripping, he isn't threatening anyone or doing anything harmful, just being annoying.
Nzuri Ainra·
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Sooo appreciate the honesty. I think s lot of this has to do with he won't accept that I left the relationship and he refuses to accept it. I value your input! Thank you!@tahtahme
missing201user·
I would be bugged out but i have problems with being smothered
missing201user·
I wonder if his dad was mia I see that happen with guys whose fathers weren't around alot.
Tahtahme·
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Yes that! My husband had a deadbeat dad who was deadbeat to more women than just his mother, and his mom deserved a good man. He has been very over the top about what he thinks I can and can't do, and about keeping the babies safe, it is o true, sometimes just trying to make up for their own life. Also you are beautiful, I can't imagine he wants to let you go 😉😂
Nzuri Ainra·
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You know what, ladies...you two are right! He often says how his father was not in his life until about five or six years ago, and he still kind of resents him for leaving. He also told me his father did his mother the same way he did me, and is unhappy about it. That is probably why he is so over the top and smothering. Wow. Just wow. He gets upset when I don't need him to do anything for me and often tells me he doesn't like "not" being needed. Me being me, I do for myself and I cannot stand feeling like I'm smothered. This is going to be an interesting experience!