ashley
akelly16
ashley·Мама троих детей

so my husband (against my wishes) is starting his second job tomorrow 😢😢😢 he will work one job from 3 am to 1 pm and go straight to the other job from 2 to 10 pm. I am so frusturated with him I've just sat and cried. I am 8 months pregnant with an 11 year old as well as 1 year old. he's off one job sat. and sun. but works the other one both days.... I'm so overwhelmed already I have no idea how I'm going to deal with the lonliness. I know we money and to catch up on some things but I'd rather go without things than go without the help around the house. this is my third pregnancy and I can hardly lift my one year old as it is let alone bathing him and carrying laundry....omg just posting about it makes me cry

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reaganmommy2015
Martee 💋💋·Мама троих детей

I have my son take out the trash, unload the dishwasher, take his dirty clothes to the garage ( that is where the washer and dryer is ) and takes out the trash cans when the trash guy comes (which is every wed) some ideas for you @akelly16

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akelly16
ashley·Мама троих детей

@reaganmommy2015, yeah we just moved into our first house so I've started him on things like putting away his own clothes and starting and switching over laundry. my one year old just gives him a hard time and then I feel bad so I'm going to think of more household stuff for him to help with

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julianeeley23
Julia·Мама дочки (11 лет)

I totally understand!

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akelly16
ashley·Мама троих детей

@babyjjsmommy, aww thanks :) I'm just worried about overdoing it and then being put on bed rest towards the end of my pregnancy

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excitedmom37
excitedmom37·Мама двоих (9 лет, 23 года)

I understand.

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reaganmommy2015
Martee 💋💋·Мама троих детей

I would have your 11 year old start helping you around the house I had my 9 year start helping me or else nothing would get done at the time I was working full time

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akelly16
ashley·Мама троих детей

Yeah he helps alot but some days his attitude is just so crazy that asking him to do stuff turns into me yelling at him for his attitude 😒 @julianeeley23 and most of the time I feel bad asking him to do stuff because I just want him to be a kid

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babyjjsmommy
babyjjsmommy·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)

I give you props, I've been saying I don't know how women do it being pregnant and handling other children especially younger kids that still want to be carried around and such. I watch my 1 and a half yr old niece sometimes and it is so hard with this big belly! I'm sorry you're in that situation though!

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julianeeley23
Julia·Мама дочки (11 лет)

Could your 11yr old help ya oit just a thought i can relate in a way sorry @akelly16

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