It's hard being a single first time mom 🙁 I'm always having a hard time deciding whether I should ask my sons father to be there when the baby is born or not . I really want him to be there just so he can have this once in a lifetime experience but it makes me sad to think he might not be there 😔
GAME TIME never have I ever..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I hate water so so much, I'm having such a hard time drinking as much as possible 😥
how hard was it for you conceive i been having a hard time myself
Ok guys I know this is tmi but what can I do about having a hard time pooping... .it hurts soooooo bad
Analucia·
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Your not the only one
paigemay123·
Мама сына (1 год)
does he want to be there?
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
Give him the opportunity and let him choose I guess. if he doesn't its seriously his loss. That's a moment you can't get back.
乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·
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@paigemay123, he said yeah but idk I don't believe him :/
乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·
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@carlismommy12, that's what I plan to do , I know I can't force him to be there but I just want to have a talk with him about it . It truly is a once in a lifetime moment & he will definitely miss out on it if he's not there .
paigemay123·
Мама сына (1 год)
tell him you'd like for him to be there but that is his choice in leave it up to him
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
Dont even try to force him. My daughters dad missed it and regrets it to this day. We co parent but aren't together. talk to him about it now and when you go into labor call him. that's all you can do.
乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·
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@paigemay123, yeah I know , I hope he makes the right choice .
乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·
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@carlismommy12, nah I won't force him . When I found out I was pregnant I told him that I'm not going to force him to be part of his child's life ..we didn't speak for a long time til he texted me on New Years & told me that he'd like to be here for the baby shower but idk I have doubts cause he lives in San Diego & he doesn't have his car rn . So that's why I'm stressed out 😞
elizabeth·
Мама дочки-младенца
i knw what u feel girl im almost due and going through the same problem
乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·
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@babylizz20, awe really ? I hope they support us . Does your partner talk to you about the baby ?
Sarah·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
Just remember you didn't make that baby alone. You shouldn't have to support him or her alone. good luck girl.
elizabeth·
Мама дочки-младенца
yeah he does,my family is giving me a hard time thoe but he tell me he wants to be involved and i told him actions speak louder then words
乃口れれ工モ 🍒🕸·
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@babylizz20, I think it's important for the dads to be involved ..but yeah like you said actions do speak louder ..I really hope it all works out for you 💗
elizabeth·
Мама дочки-младенца
hope it goes as well for you too