There have been complicated circumstances throughout my pregnancy with moving, switching insurance, enrollment periods & deadlines, the lots of waiting for appointments. Nothing has been done on time.

They didn't do an anatomy scan at 20ish weeks to verify that everything was there and on track? that's when most people find out gender, because at the minimum that is usually the one scan every doctor does.

my doc does a 18-20 week ultrasound for gender as well. I'm surprised your doc doesn't.

I found out at 15 weeks at my doctor.

you can go to places that tell you at 13weeks lol