I feel like crying... my ex husband and his girl just had their baby last week and a mutual friend just makes it all hard because she feels the need to tell me EVERYTHING. Like, I wish them well but I don't care about them or their baby... he messed over me (cheated with this woman resulted with a kid... we were 6 years in our marriage their kid was turning 5 when we ended... do the math) so it hurts my soul because we tried so hard to have a baby back then... so hearing that she and I was pregnant at the same time (this time around... we've been divorced 3 years now) kinda hurt my feelings because of my hormones...i just wanna cry because the friends keeps putting it in my head that "it should have been you Sammi " I really dislike her for saying that right now 😢 😔
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thank you that definitely makes me feel better I needed that @mango44
good for you! & i completely understand. hormones or not, what he did was completely out of line and hurtful. and you don't need any reminders. God gave you your blessing when He knew it was safe to give it to you. don't ever let anyone tell you or make you feel like it should have been you. be glad that you dodged that bullet, wish them well & forgive in your heart, and enjoy YOUR blessing ❤️
exactly... I had to cut her off... but I had to let that out too I feel better since you ladies are commenting... I know it doesn't only hurt because of my hormones but they make it that much worse @mango44
what @arijane316 said. she's not really a friend bc if she was she would know that would have hurt you, and to keep her mouth shut. besides, why is she even keeping tabs on YOUR ex husband. who needs friends if you're around people that are that sloppy and inconsiderate
@arijane316, Right, I just blocked her on a few social media sites as advised by my bf. and I blocked her messages and phone calls to. I can't deal with that anymore.. thanks for commenting 😊
cut those so called friends off. that's not a friend sorry to say especially if they always feel the need to tell you there trying to make drama and U ain't need it
in my opinion, if she's always telling you what's going on with their life, she's not really a friend. she's hurting you and needs to be put in her place
@mamashane89, I have. I'm glad that my boyfriend was able to talk to me, calm me down... but it hurts to think about she even sent me pictures it's crazy. but thank you!
You deserve so much better and you have the right to ask your friend to not fill you in on the details of your ex husband's life that you don't need to know.
you're welcome love :) any time!