My child's father (the one I'm currently carrying) and I met through a mutual friend last January. He lived 12hrs from me but when we first met we were smitten! We got to know each other through text messages and phone calls an after 4 months of that we finally met face to face! Instantly we were in LOVE! We knew we were going to get married, talked about it constantly! After 2 months of not seeing each other I was getting lonely and we couldn't afford to see each other again. I was a single mom of 2 and he was a single dad of 1. We decided to be friends but still kept in contact. We ended up seeing other people but after about 3 months of that he came here to visit and my feelings never left but I ended up putting my focus on him and only him even though he was only here for 2 weeks it was the best 2 weeks of my life. After he left I made a decision that I couldn't just leave my town my family my good job just yet. Then the unthinkable happen. I found out I was pregnant. He was super excited and made the choice of moving him and his son into my home. Unfortunately things didn't work out as plan. We couldn't get along for 2 weeks!! I wasn't the happiest I was pregnant because I was 32 pregnant with my 3rd child my a 3rd man that I wasn't married to. My other children's father takes care of them financially but that's it. I didn't want another child who's father only comes around when it was con isn't. But he ended up moving back and started a relationship again with an ex but it didn't last long and even though we still kept in touch I was upset with him for that. I still hold a grudge but remained cool just because he wanted to be around when the baby is born. We schedule an appt for the 8th of February so we can find out TOGETHER what we are having but I haven't heard or even got a response from him in 2 weeks. So devastated right now but am not going to push him into something he doesn't want. So confused right now just needed to vent! He went from Prince Charming to nothing at all! I really thought I was going to live my happily ever after...,
@jerseybecca