⚫️Rant⚫️ My SO complains 24/7 about how I should get outside more and walk or be active...meanwhile from 8am-4pm I go to school...then from 4:30 to 11pm I have to work...at a job that I am on my feet all night long. By the time I get home it is dark, my feet are swollen, and my back hurts...3rd trimester is fucking exhausting! And I'm sure other mommas to be would agree! He expects so much of me, yet he isn't the one who is about to have a baby, and who is on his feet all fucking day! It really is pissing me off.... ⚫️Rant over⚫️
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He is in college...goes to his classes and hangs out with his friends...he doesn't have a job or anything...he has NO idea @rgaine
I have 2 large dogs who get walked 3 times each per day so 6 walks plus everything else. So I hear ya!
Yeah, they go about it all wrong. Not sure how to fix an issue like this obviously since I'm having a similar problem. :-(
I literally am constantly moving around and keeping busy at my job, and I see where he is coming from...but like you said my So is very blunt too. It just pisses me off tho, like I walk to and from school...so like a mile there and back, walk the halls, and move around at work...when I get off it's like 11:30-12 and dark outside and I don't get up earlier than 7 because I need sleep too so idk what he expects @rgaine
I get the same thing, but he's right. It would be good for me to move a little more so@I@try to work in an extra 10 min here and there earlier in the day. I was seriously offended at first (now mildly offended after I reflected a bit) because he's blunt and rude but doesn't think he is. I still hunk he acts like an ass re: weight but now I move more for me and baby while telling him to shove it.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
All these people that moan about this hurts that hurts I bloody work all the time on my feet all flipping day litrley getting 2 mins to sit down all day and I servive think some people are just lazy ..plus I have a child an house to look after.
To prove a point to someone. Who all here knows where my username originated from? 👀
I wish mine would say something like that. That would be an ass whooping he would never forget. Thats what kind of hormones I have at the moment lol