I am so irritated with my ex boyfriend. OK given he had a stroke. But all he does is lay in bed the bed. I'm tryna help him out until he gets a nurse but he is trifling. Examples: 1) He hasn't changed clothes in days. 2) He spilled urine in his bed now everything stinks. 3) He doesn't even try or motivate himself to do any better. 4)I have to tell him to take a bath. 5) He has the nerves to pressure me for sex. Ewww. I'm tryna be nice given his situation but I don't think I can do it.
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@mierbaby, @jheyer1109 I guess I feel like for once I wanna cater to me before I cater to my baby yet another person whom I have to put their needs before my own. I feel like the least he can do is try.
@mierbaby, alot of it. when I bring it up he doesn't want to hear it. it's counter production at its finest
@jheyer1109, am I seeing a therapist. No I'm gonna need 1 at this rate
Being a caregiver is harder than being the patient sometimes
Are you seeing a therapist? It might not be a bad idea? I'm a nurse and I've seen this happen 100s of times. Tell his nurses to be more "forceful" and make them change him and give him a bath
@jheyer1109, I'm trying but I don't think I can do this. I'm throwing up from the smell. I'm irritated to see him just wither away. He just wants to have sex. I'm cool on that. I'm honestly disappointed and disgusted.
It's called failure to thrive. Give him time. Show him you still love him. One day at a time
Yea I'm gonna have to be honest and tell him I can't do it
Yeah :( of coarse none of us are going to know the full situation. Gotta do what's best for you and baby
@kingme07, I completely understand I am a cancer survivor. However it all comes down to how much do you want to live. I knew I didn't wanna die. I'm no longer in love with him. But I still care about him. it's extremely hard to watch somebody you care about just give up. I have a baby on the way it's not his and I kinda feel like he doesn't care of how I feel. Just baby I need some. baby I wet myself. baby when are you coming back. it's almost unbearable. I'm about to wash up a grown man and change his sheets.
Just remember he could be depressed to and not know it. I don't know how severe things are, but when ur depressed due to your health, Etc no one wants to get out of bed :( sex may be what makes him feel like u still love him regardless of the stroke
😩 it's tough. Tell him you will have sex with him but this is what he needs to do first. Set goals.