Not sure why but I feel like I ruined my life by having a baby....I love my baby and I wouldn't…
Not sure why but I feel like I ruined my life by having a baby....I love my baby and I wouldn't trade him for anything but his father (my BF) isn't as helpful as I need him to be, he doesn't help pay for anything, works 2 jobs as a waiter, barely makes any tips, and any money he does get goes to child support for his first son. I thought by now (our baby is due in 5 weeks) he'd get it together, but nope he's still as dependent as ever on me. We argue all the time, I'm really sure I want to leave but every time I try to his mom gets over emotional and cries about how I'm taking her grandbaby from her (like his ex did) and she goes on about how nobody can care for my baby like she does and living with my dad is just gonna make things worse (I want to move with him for a short while until I get myself together) I'm just sitting here hating myself because now I'm like "What did I get myself into?" 😰😞
Jenni·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (35 нед.)
Do what's best for you and baby, im in the same situation, on trying to be with my daughter's father but you need to know that you shouldnt go by what people tell you, obviously shes still going to be grandma but who cares if your not happy in the relationship then do what's best it might be hard but just know that you have the most wonderful person your baby and you want whats best for both of you
Elizabeth·
Don't stress yourself over something you can change on your own. Grandma will be upset but if she loves/cares for her grand baby she'll want you do to your best to give the baby everything it'll need.