HELP! Fed up with hubbys grandma! We live next to her. Everything went ok for a while but now she calls for unnecessary things like, "come over wash my dishes I don't feel like it." Or she'll say, "come & get me a water from the fridge." She's 87 but she's able to walk around, she still drives a car, she even walks around our block when she is bored. Also when I take my 2 year old over to see her she doesn't listen to me. The other day she handed my daughter an open safety pin!! I took it & walked into another room to keep from saying anything but it's so hard! I'm 34 weeks pregnant with our 2nd & I'm very seriously thinking about keeping my kids away from her & just cutting ties all together with her but I don't want to hurt my hubby :( what do I do?