You're welcome anytime you need to talk . Don't hesitate 💞💙
@bestofbothworlds88, thanks I really really needed to hear that I appreciate it
Yes it will hurt , and your emotions are all out of whack right now so it hurts even more . People don't realize that words do hurt because the most painful ones always come from the ones you Love the most . But you can't stress about it . It's more iMportant than ever that you stay strong and healthy for you and your baby . And pray about everything else .
sorry I probably should've worded it better @lizzie413
no you read it wrong I was talking about my mom @lizzie413
@bestofbothworlds88, I know she did but it wasn't like I planned for it to happen it was an accident honestly and your right she doesn't know how to handle it I just don't get it my grandma didn't degrade her and make her feel like crap because she got pregnant young so why do it to me it's not fair it hurts
it just really sucks to know that the person that's suppose to be there for u no matter what thinks that low of u @lizzie413
It's hard because that's your mother and what girl wouldn't want to experience their first pregnancy with the woman that gave birth to them . Unfortunately sometimes it's not like that . However maybe she just wanted better for you , maybe she doesn't know how to handle it . I mean you are her baby girl . If she doesn't come around during your pregnancy once your baby gets here she'll have a change of heart for sure and if she doesn't then you don't want the negative energy around your baby or you . Just pray things will get better .
idk what it is I really just wish she would get past it @hermommy
I'm 20 years old and my dad seems to think that I'm a whore all of a sudden too. don't let anyone get u down. if u got pregnant at 35 they'd call u a prude or old or something just as ridiculous.
she's your mother of course she does mine always knew how to hurt my feelings too. maybe she's worried you'll do a better job at it@amorasmom
idk I guess cause she knows what to say to make me feel bad @hermommy
why can't you? Lol maybe she wants another child but can't @amorasmom
gotta love it. mine acts the way she does bc she's jealous that's how I feel lol@amorasmom
I'm not going to lie to you, I went ghost for about 7-8 months from my family I just popped up again on their radar and my mom called me a slutty whore for getting pregnant young and out of wed lock I went ghost again happiest days of my life:)@amorasmom
smh this is why I shouldn't have come back home I knew I should've stayed away @hermommy
trust me i understand being confused I was also, just ignore her your not a whore sad thing is she will be all over your child like she never said anything mean to u@amorasmom
@mamabearwise, I just don't understand she did the same thing when she was my age my gma never treated her like this @hermommy
@amorasmom, I'm sorry you have to go through that it's not fair. hopefully she gets it together. regardless of a baby or not your still her child. and my mom has also said horrid things to me but like ^^ said I made it clear that happens again and she can say adios to me and my child. it's sad when family will be the first to beat you down. if you ever need anyone to talk or vent to were all here :)
@mbab, I never say anything I just let her talk I don't want to start nothing more than I already have obviously
its okay my mother is a pastor and still calls me a whore. she kicked me out on my ass when she found out I was pregnant. some "Christian" she is.
@amorasmom, I know how you feel my mom also called me a whore:/ i cried for days the realised shes no better. she had me at 20 got pregnant at 19 just like i did. That is very mean:(
@paige1212, oh snap.....I'd be telling my mother a piece of my mind. I'm sorry hun.....it hurts I know my mom has said some mean stuff to me also but I stood up for myself and it hasn't happen again or I'll cut her out of my life....I'm kinda cruel.
@blessedmom, @hermommy @mamabearwise @paige1212 I guess its just really getting to me cause it's my mom I never expected anything like that to come out of her mouth but i guess I should have
my mother says a lot of bad stuff she will say everything from I'm a bad person to I slept with to many people so I understand sweety
I'm 22 and still get the same treatment. people are horrible. I know of people who have sex for the first time and end up pregnant. It only takes one time. some people are too small minded and are assholes. don't let low life mean people get you down ♡
it's just hard not to pay attention to when it's coming from your mother it really hurts @sarahemccormick @sweetlove94 @azurisantez715 @mommyof3soon4 @mylittlejaxon52116 @mbab
you are not a whore. I get the same thing and I'm 20 years old just brush it off baby girl
I swear people can be so rude, it doesn't matter how old you are girl getting pregnant doesn't make you a whore ignore them. Sounds to me like they need to read the damn dictionary and learn the definition
#1 15 #2 17 #3 22 #4 I'll be 24 so my kids are all with my husband who I lost my v card to. a whore is my husband other baby mom 4 kids 4 baby dads all two years or less apart....js
I got pregnant at 15 and then again at 18 so your not a whore sweety I promise
Look over ppl and don't let bs get to you!!
i had mine at 14 the first second at 17 and third at 22 this fourth im 25
I'm one too then lol I had my first when I was 15 got pregnant at 14
I had my oldest at 18 and the only person I've ever had sex with is my husband. Being young doesn't mean you're a whore
Uh, I got pregnant at 15. And then at 17. And Im not a whore. Dont listen to people, they're idiots.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@bestofbothworlds88, thank you!